were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else
2007-03-17 16:24:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked this girl to the movies the other day, not as a date, but just said, lets go movies tonite...., she accepted, then said " will you be paying for my movie???"....whats that mean??i said yes of course...is that a hint?She seems quite unstable at the moment, and i want to take it easy with her, should i not ask her to things so often, and let it slowly grow?and maybe when i do see her, show her signs that im into her???....Shes always saying how she loves the single life etc.....dont know where i stand.Sometimes, shell never txt me during the day, and if i txt her....she txt's back almost instantly....and then shell not txt again for ages....whats this mean...this is when i get the feeling shes not interested.
2007-03-17 16:25:00 · update #1
She sounds spooky
2007-03-17 16:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll let you in on a little secret. No one ever has, nor ever will understand Women! Especially not a man! Women are weird creatures period. So are Men! My only advice is to not worry about it so much and just go with the flow. Let her know how you feel both by action and word and I promise you will have no regrets. If you keep trying to figure out what every little thing she does means you will just end up driving yourself crazy. From the looks of things it sounds like she really likes you!
2007-03-17 23:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She totally likes you dude! I wish a girl liked me that much. But anyways, she kinda ignores you when she's studying so she can concentrate more. I know it might make you feel unwanted at times, but she could be doing it for you! Maybe if she doesn't have good grades, her parents won't let her do fun things. So she weighed the ups and downs and decided it was worth it to lose a little bit of time with you to gain a lot!
2007-03-17 23:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a girlllllfriend, you've got a girllllllfriend!
I'm just joking around, but it really sounds like she is in to you. The only mixed signal is not talking to you when she is studying. Maybe she takes school very seriously. It could be something as simple as not wanting to use cell phone minutes during the day.
2007-03-17 23:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by hatevirtual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
space cadet my friend. cut and run CUT AND RUN
nah she seems a little boinkers thats all. you reading into the silly stuff too much. she obviously is really shy and hasnt been close to anyone and doesnt know how to act properly. give her some time and she will act normal. if not call the nuthouse cuz shes off her meds.
canada... wait i take all that back, she is crazy.
2007-03-17 23:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by tangsausagees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think this girl likes you...I had this happen to me, I was 19 though and had a guy who was my best friend we acted the same way with each other....one day after about a year of this weird friendship thing he kissed me, we have been married for 3 years now!!!! You gotta take chances!! Goooo for it!!! good luck!!!
2007-03-17 23:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up front tell her how you feel and what happends happends but you must know whats going on and its worth the try ;) otherwise you got the other choise of not telling her anything and keep hiding and hoping she will come to you but thats a scary wait and anything can happend she might lose interest if you don't play back
2007-03-17 23:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i asked this girl to the movies the other day, not as a date, but just said, lets go movies tonite...., she accepted, then said " will you be paying for my movie???"....i said yes of course."
bad play in my opinion. If you're already paying for her stuff, you will always pay for everything.
2007-03-17 23:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Gregory O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means thatshe likes you as a friend. I do that to my guy friend except call his parents and friends and ask if he is paying for my movie. But yeah she likes you as a friend. And maybe more.
2007-03-17 23:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think she does but maybe scared of losing you as a friend so maybe you need to but it on line and tell her how you feel what can lose just be honest.
2007-03-17 23:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by joe c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she digs you, it sounds like me n the guy i like, he just hasnt picked it up yet, i mean yah if she asked if you were paying it means she wants you too, not because she broke but because she wants it to be a date. unless when she asked she ahad a relly odd look on her face, but u probaby wouldbve mentioned that if she had, so yah go for it
2007-03-17 23:30:57 · answer #11 · answered by rawr! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋