i really like this girl but i dunno is she likes me back she is really nice to me but of corse she is nice to everybody i dont kno if she dont like me or is just playin hard to git but the problem is im to scared to ask her so any suggestions
2007-03-17 16:21:31 · 19 answers · asked by wen godzilla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being a female i think that it is cute when a guy is shy about asking but even cuter if is also strong enough to come to me in person and ask. so i say go for it!
2007-03-17 16:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by naomi b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a simple move to start off. Start a conversation with her and take note on how interested she is in your personal life. Read her gestures if possible and really try to interpret her words. Don't take it to a level beyond and above, just simple tactics will work.
Some girls will play hard to get, however, in most cases they are either too shy or are waiting for the guy to make the first move. I find some women tend to enjoy the company of a, if I may say it bluntly, a "manly like man." Maybe she is just testing you and is hoping you pass with flying colors.
But best advice I can give you is just start a conversation. have a good, solid friendship as your base and start building up from there. When the time is right, you will ask her out. Feel confident in yourself and continue thriving in self-esteem and conviction.
Good Luck
2007-03-17 16:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Philosophical One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your too scared then you're not worth her time. No offense! If she is nice then she is probably open enough to talk or listen to you. Shouldn't you treat her the same?
Alot of girls don't play hard to get, they are just waiting for the guy to proclaim his feelings/move first. In which a lot of times the guy doesn't get the hint or is too scared...Don't be that guy!!! Take the time to get to know her, girls like that and don't be afraid to be yourself. If you're fake/insincere, she'll know it or find it out later.
Be confident, nothing wins a girl over like confidence, a nice smile and eye contact. Talk to her, if anything get her # and call her if thats easier, remember at some point you will have to speak to her face to face! If it turns out she doesn't like you, she will probably at least have gained new respect for you and who knows, she may change her mind later.
What if you don't ever tell her? Are you willing to hide in your heart how you feel for her for eternity? Would you be more comfortable just sitting there and letting her pass you by, with you left wondering, what would have happened if I would've just opened my mouth?
It's your choice and no one elses', so I say again be yourself. You know your situation better than anyone, so don't let yourself down! Good Luck!
2007-03-17 16:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u just ask her if she would like to go out and do something, something not too heavy but like two friends would do. Build up your courage. Just ask her. What's the worst thing she can say? If she says no, then you'll know where you stand and can look for someone else, and if she says yes, then you're on the right track. Easier said than done I know, but just do it and don't think too much about it.
2007-03-17 16:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Gretta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Its ot like I havent heard this before. Typical problems with girls and guys. Just hang around her more with out pushing your way in her life. If she likes the attention you show her its a good sign, but if she doesnt like it, trust me you will know! Give her complements and the best thing to do is give her looks in the halls with out looking at her like a fat kid and cake. Then if she likes you, she'll be more comfortable and you will be able to tell!
Hearts&&Hearts
Emma
2007-03-17 16:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no girl really plays hard to get. Every one says that to make the guy feel better. You have to make a move soon and to stop doubtng your selve. See you may miss your chance. Start talking to her and see what she thinks.
Good luck
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2016-10-01 02:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by arieux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start talking with her. Of course not about LOVE but starting with studies, etc. will be fine. Little by little you can become her best friend!!
After that you will understand what to do!!
Good Luck!!
2007-03-17 16:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Gayan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask her it is better to know for sure how she feels then to keep it all in and wonder. Its hard to move on yourself if you are stuck on wondering if she does or not.
2007-03-17 16:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by slynnch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya same with me and this boy! but i think he likes me because he stares at me a lot. He doesnt go to my school, we met through JRP. I think he is soooo hot! but hey, this is your problem, not mine! leave her a note. that is an easy way to find things out. I will if you will!
2007-03-17 16:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Cole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋