2007-03-17 16:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by Nacho Nacho man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If not then can you tell us what?
2007-03-17 16:21:15 · update #1
you want a real man who isnt like a complete push over, but not an abusive guy, just a guy who does guy things, but is still nice and cute and can carry ona comversation
2007-03-17 16:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-
Most jerks don't start dishing
out the abuse until after they have
the girl hooked.
Some women mistakenly believe that
"they can be the one to change him"-
and make him into their version of
"Prince Charming".
Of course, that never works-
but you can't tell them that.
Sometimes, women put up with
abuse because they were raised
in that type of environment
and equate abuse with love-
and just don't know how
to let go of the guy who
is mistreating them.
Sometimes women aren't just soft-hearted-
they are also soft-headed.
2007-03-17 23:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they're not attracted to it, but more often than not there is a definitive answer as to why they are drawn towards "jerks"....quite often it stems from something in their past or the way they were raised, what their relationship was like with their father or in previous relationships. Many reasons why women tend to lean that way but it's always a bad idea and if you recognize it just leave him as fast as you can!
2007-03-18 16:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! At least not this woman (well girl I guess, lol...I'm 16) I tend to fall for the jerks but I definitely don't fall for their bullsh*t once I realize that they are just sweet talkers...my ultimate man would be one of the nice guys.
But I think a lot of women are just into the whole good looks and "cool" personality type of thing. I don't get it...some women are not that smart. :-)~
2007-03-17 23:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! Women are attracted to the way he looks, or his money, or this or that, and will tolerate the abuse just so they can get the goods. (i'm not like that, but thats why some girls date those types) don't worry, u'll find a girl who appreciates U!
2007-03-17 23:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are, it draws attention to themselves, they can be drama queens, they seek pity, cause trouble, and get to be the center of attention......all cause some poor jerk has dished out abuse on her......
2007-03-17 23:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...... Girls like guys that are sweet to them but then they can still be there tough selves
2007-03-17 23:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋