I have a crush on this boy who is really nice to me and talks to me a lot but I just freeze up when I try to talk to him. What do I say and how to I build up the courage to say it?!
2007-03-17 16:18:30 · 14 answers · asked by Hopeful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know somebody who like you and when he ask who say me and smile Good luck
2007-03-17 16:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with hello. A light conversation is always a good impression. Don't act as though you are really enamored with him. Just act cool. Also, it might be nice to start the conversation yourself, therefore having the upper hand, and being able to play the night before what you want to say to him.
Good conversation topics would be things that you might have in common like a school class or a dumb teacher. Favorites are also an easy thing to think of: favorite movie, color, animal, etc. There's so much to talk about.
2007-03-17 23:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds funny to say it to a mirror but i works !!!!!! And if you talk to other guys you dont know all to well and that you don't really like that will help build courage!Q!!!
2007-03-17 23:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. And it's not even like I'm THAT shy...but around boys I like it's like "Ahhh what do I say?" I think you just kind of follow up on what he says with questions and try your hardest not to fidget or play with your hair...he probably thinks it's really cute though and who knows...you might end up together :-P
2007-03-17 23:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest first finding out what his major interests are, and try and learn about them so you have something to talk about. Also, try to hang out with him and his friends to learn about his personality. So that you don't freeze, think about talking with some of your guy friends so you can gain confidence.
2007-03-17 23:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that all the time!but my friends are very supporting,they give me real tips that help!if u have a crush on this guy,you dont straight away inform and say you like him,i mean,just be yourself and dont do things that can embaress you,you should get to know him better by asking him to hang out,or have a chat with you,just get to know him better.just have that confidence with you!
hope that helps!
best of luck,
elsa ;)
2007-03-17 23:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by elsa brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he talks to you and is nice to you then he obviously likes you. Don't be scared, just talk to him. If you want to ask him out then just ask him b/c even if he isnt attracted to you at least you know he likes you so he'll be nice about it. If you just want to talk to him then just bring up interesting topics because he cleary likes talking to you.
2007-03-17 23:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by Katie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and be calm and pretend that you don't like him more than a friend. Then say what ever is on your mind. Just be yourself. If you want to ask him out then do it.
2007-03-17 23:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat's gonna take a lot of time
i know dis may sound stupid but it works for me, practice by urself and hav a image of him standing rit before u and u'll eventually get over it. sooner or l8ter u'll talk to him normally when he really is in front of u
or...
write a letter and plz don't 4get to put ur name on it, then stick it in his locker
2007-03-17 23:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by 100%angelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him what you're thinking.. (if he's being nice to you and talking to you a lot - he probably likes you.. - at the very least he's very comfortable with you..) be subtle - tell him he has nice eyes, a smile etc.. see how he reacts..
2007-03-17 23:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by gorg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋