im sad. & i dont know why i just start thinking about all this stuff. and my friend likes this guy who i like they always flirt and i always feel left out when we all hangout..can someone please give me advice. i dont know what to do anymore..
2007-03-17 16:14:00 · 9 answers · asked by FLUFF PUFF<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to shake it off and go find yourself someone else to hang out with. I would be sad too if I was the third wheel.
The worst thing you can do is feel sorry for yourself. Everyday is a new day to find what makes you happy.
Now you know that being the third wheel is not making you happy....simply stop it. Just that easy...stop and go find something that makes you smile.
The world is filled with people don't be sad over these two because they sure are not sad over you.
2007-03-17 16:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lyric J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, it seems like you have some depression/friendship issues going on there. My advice on that is try going and see your school counsler. Its there job to listen to your problems and can give awesome experience. And about your friend & guy.... I kinow its hard to see that but you know sometimes we just have to face the facts and move on.. I meant life is just too short right? Why waste your time mourning over some guy, when some quiet cutie may be eyeing you! And always remember.. the only thing that makes a girl unique is her smile! So show it off!
Hearts&&Hearts
Emma
2007-03-17 23:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expand your circle of friends. And most important, don't rely on others to make you happy. A lot of times happiness comes from within and there are so many factors like accepting who you are. Don't look what you're missing but what you have. There's always a positive and a negative side to everything, don't settle your thoughts on the negative, even better, always look for something good no matter what the situation looks like. Find positive people and go out and have fun.
2007-03-17 23:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your friend know how you feel about this guy...if she does she is being very inconsiderate of your feelings. You need to hang out with some of your different friends for a while and get away from what is upsetting you. If she doesn't know how you feel you need to talk to her.
2007-03-17 23:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off does you friend know you like this guy? If so, what kind of friend do you really have? If she is the one feeling him and he is feeling her, I know it's better said then done but leave them both alone. They will know what they are missing when it is gone. Smile.
2007-03-17 23:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend knows that you like this guy and she is stepping on you toes, she isn't your friend. I would tell her how you feel and leave her alone. If she doesn't know how you feel then you need to let her know before something happens.
2007-03-17 23:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be open with ur friend if she likes him too than u girls are going to have to figure out what is more important a stupid guy or your friendship. If you end ur friendship than u better be ready to fight for your guy bc if I were you I say chicks before dic*s!!!
2007-03-17 23:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why are you upset? If your friend likes him and he likes her then it is their chemistry and it has nothing to do with you. The fact that you like/d him is moot if he does not like you back.
2007-03-17 23:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by Challenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him up on the phone and talk to him then and DONT 3 way call
2007-03-17 23:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Live Love Laugh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋