2007-03-17 16:12:31 · 32 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes they do. you just have to find mr.right or better yet, let him find you.
2007-03-17 16:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are certainly good guys out there. I am an employer and I have hired my share both good and bad men. I think that you can find a mate using some of the same techniques I use to find good workers.
First, have some basic questions in mind and AHEAD of time when "interviewing" a prospect. For example, at some point, ask a morality question: which of the ten commandments he's broken? Does he do drugs? etc.. If he says something that even hints that he is less than moral, move on to the next man. Core moral values determine what a person is really like.
Next, find out how ambitious he is. You probably need him to have some passion about his path in life, otherwise you will likely loose respect for him.
Chemestry...I don't understand this bit, but there is basic attractiveness to consider, If there isn't a spark, forget it.
Anyway, try to think of dating as interviewing, try to use some logic along with the emotion.
BB
2007-03-17 16:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Bernard B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you would've asked me this a few months ago I probably would have said "HELL NO!" but I know they do. It seems like the good guys are always covered up by the crappy ones they hang with but you'll know one if you meet one. The thing is that most girls and women do beleive that there are NO good guys in this world so when they meet a good one they blow him off. I'm not saying let your guard down completely but if a guy seems KINDA nice.......look into it. He may just be the ONE for you and staring you right in the face. So my simple answer: YES, good guys do exist. If you find one don't let him go. I made the mistake of doing that and it's the biggest regret I have.
2007-03-17 16:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by noella. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but as with all mankind there is imperfection in everyone. Good guys are the guys whose good qualities far out way the bad qualities and whose bad qualities are of little importance to their partner.
The dilemma, however, is that though women say they want a good guy, they always go after the bad a$$ even though he has a record of cheating on women and breaking hearts because he thinks its a good time. The shy male friend you talk to about your ex who cheated on you and treated you like crap, that shy guy that's always there as such a nice guy who really listens to you and actually cares how you feel, he's a good guy. Unfortunately for us even though women always say that's what they want we never have a chance to be in a relationship with those women we care about because you don't really want a good guy. I finally worked up the courage to ask one of those girls who "wanted" a good guy and her response was, "Your so nice, you'll make a great husband for someone someday. I wish there were more guys like you." And yet she did not want to date me and could not give a reason why.
If you really want a good guy, then go get him. There are far more of us than you think.
2007-03-18 01:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes good guys do exist your just not looking in the right places. Or your just not ready for a guy just yet. It just depends.
2007-03-17 16:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys exist--perfect ones don't. Figure out what you really want and be prepared to pass on a lot that is less important.
2007-03-17 16:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup they do. I am one of those great guys. It's just all the women I meet don't want me. Even after they say how great of a guy and nice I am. I guess I must be too nice or something.
If you wanna chat to a nice guy just email me or IM me on yahoo I'm bored and doing nothing but yahoo answers now.
2007-03-17 17:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes good guys exist, there are just way too many slimeballs out there for you to find the good one on your first few trys. keep your eyes open he is usually the shy one.
2007-03-17 16:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by billy_bong_horton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweets, I live in hope that they do. I have yet to find one for myself, but I keep hoping to soon. A few of my friends have found them & this is what gives me hope to find my own good guy. Keep looking. I believe in the adage of having to kiss a lot of toads to find your prince.
2007-03-17 16:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by SpaGirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They do exist, they are just a lil' hard to find sometimes. Your best bet is just living your life and taking care of yourself so when he comes around you have as much to offer him as he will to you.
2007-03-17 16:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you think a "good" guy is like one who buys you stuff or one who loves you for who you are.he'll find you.just be patient and dont give anyone anything they dont desearve.the good things in life are worth waiting for.
2007-03-17 16:27:20 · answer #11 · answered by rozx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋