I like this boy and I think he likes me to but I'm not sure. He's my bro's friend and he's at my house a lot. We're the same age. When he comes over to hang out, my friends are there too. They think we are all just friends but I like him. I want to tell my friends that I like him but I don't know what they'll say or even if I should. I just have to tell somebody besides Y!A. But I don't know. Should I?
2007-03-17 16:10:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh to be young again..
2007-03-17 16:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by BOBBIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling your friends shouldn't be too harmful, however, do keep in mind that word of mouth has a rapid transfer rate. I would tell only those you feel you can trust. Weigh the detriments and benefits of telling the friend and truly think what your next step will be. Do not just tell a friend and believe it will become a golden paved rode soon after. Plan ahead, but only to a certain extent. Maybe you should just tell him straight up since, as you said, he is already a friend of yours. And if he is truly a friend, then he won't take offense to what you say. Read on if you are ready.
Try to go upto him once in a while and simply say hi. If he answers back, and waivers with his words just a bit, try to ask a simple question such as "how is your day?" etc. Common courtesy will allow him to ask you the same question and from there just have a nice conversation. Maybe slip it in that you like someone as a indirect statement, heck maybe you can try a joke if you think you have it in you. If he seems interested in your love life, then near the end or when the time is right, tell him how you feel. You don't want to be too straightforward nor do you want to wait till it is too late.
Good Luck Miss
2007-03-17 16:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Philosophical One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if these friends of yours are your close friends, you should tell them. I don't see why you shouldn't. It doesn't matter what they'll say. It's really up to you. If you feel like they should know about it, then go ahead. If you feel that they could use the info to blackmail you, but you still want to tell someone about it, talk to your closest friend. Maybe he/she will be able to help you out there.
2007-03-17 16:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell, no.
If you tell your friends, many problems may occur.
I guess so, coz I can't believe my friend. You know what, I've told my friends something, but they spilt the beans. Lol!
If you love him, just tell the guy. If the guy accept you, you can tell your friends. Do that seem better? Yea, try!
2007-03-17 16:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know you dont have to tell your friends EVERYTHIN. Trust me we all have our little secrets.BUT they are your friends and should support you all the way. Just flirt with him but dont through yourself at the kid. Just dont move first let him come to you. And play it cool and be yourself. Confidence is the key!
Hearts&&Hearts
Emma
2007-03-17 16:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont wanna sound mean to your friends, but i wouldnt tell them, because (this happened to me just recently) i've been crushing on this guy and i seriously like him, then i told my friends and they have been all over him, seems like their doing it on purpose, i dont know, after i told my friends, me and that guy i like havent been talking at all, he even ignores me when my friends are around.
2007-03-17 16:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by MarinaMCR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them why would they care if they are your friends they will respect your choice to like him and they should helpu get him!!
2007-03-17 16:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them. honesty is vary important in friendships.
2007-03-17 16:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by jenmatchmaker2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋