:D.....dun ok well im sorta like in a weird relationship with this guy...but its a kindve relationship where we want (well really me :) to get to know each other better :D since we both know we like each other alot....yet hes really ready to go out with me...on a date....yet i think in my opinion i im too young to worry about dating and a boyfriend...and hes too much of a player-ish guy :) so i want to let him know that i do like him but i dont wanna go any farther then being really good friends :D i wanna let him know nicely......but anyways what to tell him? confused?
**but i feel like i'll be heartbroken cause he'll move on and ask someone else out.....but i shouldnt really care right?!!!
2007-03-17 16:09:31 · 5 answers · asked by BrownieMonster 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had the same problem recently with someone. If you feel like you two are getting closer than you would like to be, just simply tell him. Just say, "I'm not sure I want to be anything more than good friends," or something along those lines. Don't be too harsh, though! And if you think that you'll be heartbroken and get jealous of him if he does end up getting another girlfriend, then stop and ask yourself if you're positive that you don't want to date him. Once you tell him that you just want to be friends, it may be hard to get him back if you end up wanting to date him. Before you do anything, make sure what you are going to do is what you truly want to do. I hope this helped!
2007-03-17 16:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by bucci_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight up with him. Tell him exactly how you feel and exactly what you want. Damn I wish all girls would do that! Just be willing to accept the consequences if he goes away. Then again that might help you realize how and what you feel for him. Good luck!
2007-03-17 23:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fess Up and be honest and give it a try to speak the truth . sadly madly but truly Yes Ma'am this is the golden key
2007-03-18 17:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whew, that's a thoughie. Tell him things aren't going to work between you two because you are, honestly not ready for a boyfriend.
2007-03-18 00:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy you like him. then sit back and watch him run in the opposite direction. peace
2007-03-17 23:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋