1. this guy likes me and i don't like him and im afraid that hes going to ask me out or something and i don't want to be mean to him!!
2. this other guy keeps trying to get up the nerve to ask me out or something!? he keeps talking about how he needs more numbers in his "my circle" thing from altell and talking about movies in theaters and asking if i want to see them (but not with him just in general) and i really want him to ask me but i can't ask him out because i did about a year or two ago when we never talked and i don't want to repeat that but i don't know what to do?!
im honestly desparate.. please help me!
2007-03-17 16:08:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for the first guy i know how you feel, lthis totally weird guy likes me and i mean hes nice, but definatly no, you just need to make it cleaar you just want to be friends, he'll move on eventually especially if..
you go out with the second guy, dont ask him out, but next time he talks about a movie, just be lie "we should get a group and go see it" so then its not a date, but good bonding time, and say it really casually, thats my suggestion ive seen it work before, but yah i wouldnt invite the first guy cuz he may try to distract you from your man, or the second guy would feel awkward hitting on you with him there.
2007-03-17 16:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guy #1 - if he asks you out give him the line. oh (insert name) im not sure that would be right, i dont want to change our friendship, i think it is perfect the way it is now.
guy#2 - dont ask him out as boyfriend and girlfriend just go out somewhere with him and hang out. at the end of the night get close and see if he wants a kiss goodnight. on the cheek or handshake he just wants to be friends but if he goes for it all and kisses you on the lips he is into it and you should start spending more time with him.
hope i helped
2007-03-17 16:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by billy_bong_horton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 02:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by arieux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you he needs to be flat out and ask you out. If he's playing those little games reject him a couple times and see if he begs. Then it will show how much he really likes u and then you can get the courage to tell him how u feel.
2007-03-17 16:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first guy, if hes a nice guy and you dont want to hurt his feelings......tell him you are flattered that he asked you out but you are interested in someone else.
The second guy if you have already asked him out he knows you like him, and its up to him to ask you out.... personally he sounds like a bit of a wimp to me, and Id give him a miss.
2007-03-17 16:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first guy asks you out, say thanks but no thanks, gettin' with someone you don't like is bad for both involved. With the second guy, don't push it, continue to spend time around him and if he really likes you, then eventually he will come around. Waitin' is not the answer people like to hear but you have already made your move awhile back, now it's his turn if he is interested.
2007-03-17 16:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your complaining about too many guys wanting to ask you out.....I wish I had your problems. Simple, if a guy ask you out and you don't want to go just say...."I'm really flattered, but I think we're better as friends"
2007-03-17 16:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by Yoda_Yodel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my gosh
what a freaking catastrophy.
look this is what i think:
i think you should let it all play out.
you're freaking out way too much
(i know becuase i freak out aobut nothings all the time.)
just see what happens.
oh and don't be afraid to say no to a guy- that can get you in trouble later
2007-03-17 16:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by KB 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1) You can't avoid the issue. Just let him know you're not interested in dating anyone right now.
2007-03-17 17:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by tlcnc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make sure the first guy knows you don't like him that way
2007-03-17 16:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋