Why do nice guys get hart broken for years by girls going off and having there fun with the bad boys until they have had it with that and dacide to go with a nice guy, can anyone tell me.
Why do us nice guys get ignored and then all of a sudden have to accept a girl who has ignored them for years?
Why are the nice guys the ones who have to be the ones who end up being the ones that have to settle down?
If you can answer them all that would be good thanks?
2007-03-17 15:53:26 · 10 answers · asked by Taarnick Nolth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been trying to figure this out for years man. I tried and tried to figure it out and I still don't have an answer to this question. I have been called a nice guy, an awesome guy, and one of the greatest guys they have ever met..and all of them reject me like I'm worthless...only to go back to there boyfriends and get beat.
How does that make me feel as a person to be called a great guy and them to still be with men that beat them and abuse them. It doesn't make me feel to good about myself.
I mean I can't be that great if no one wants me right ?
It just sucks.
2007-03-17 16:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly where you are coming from it is just for the women that alot of men they like a guy who is hard to get
or just has that danger attitude to them. Remember as well in high school alot of girls you may have known would rebel against the parents so bringing home the nasty, crazy looking guys would drive the parents nuts. Bringing home the nice guys well it makes the parents happy and well it pisses the girl off because she is not getting on the parents nerves.
I myself would never except a girl who ignored me for years
if you would put yourself in that position then your a moron find a girl who wants to be with you and only you from day one.
Nice guys settle down because that is what is nice about life
nice guys want the family life or atleast a wife a house and some pets. Atleast us nice guys will probably never have a police record and a shi tty resume and go no where jobs.
Be thankful for what you have because even when your nice you can have the things in life that some guys only dream of.
God Bless and Good Luck.
2007-03-17 16:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never been interested in bad boys. I think that they're immature and insecure. I thought I'd found a nice guy last year but after 2 mths of dating he dumped me and didn't have the decency to say anything. He just stopped calling. We never had a fight, I never played games with him, I'm not a gold digger so I was confused. I found out later he dumped me because I didn't have sex with him. I won't give up and I'm not going to become a ***** because I believe there's a nice, genuine guy out there for me. One day you'll find a girl who recognizes quality when she sees it. Don't stress those same girls are ones who'll be miserable when the bad boy breaks their heart.
2007-03-17 16:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by icu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry i can't fully really answer your questions just because i guess i'm an exception.. i Don't go for the bad boys even Right Now.. i'm 17 and i Never have. i go for the nice guys.. and they definitely do not finish last in my book. not All girls are like that.. at least not me. but i can tell you that those girls who Are like that basically suck.. because if they want that i personally think they are stupid. you need to find better girls.. ones who are caring and love you for you.. and you will find them. i guess those girls are just immature, and so i guess once they mature and REALIZE what they have been missing then i guess That's when they actually use their brains and go for those guys who really matter.. which are the Good Guys like you. you will find someone amazing some day that loves you for you, and those ones will be the most lucky of all. don't worry about those girls who choose to be like that, because it's Their loss, and their problem, not yours. you did Nothing wrong.. you deserve better than them. best wishes to you!!
2007-03-17 16:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a nice girl and I always seem to get the jerks. Who knows why nice people always get the worst luck? I've stopped trying to figure it out and hope that one day I will find a man that can appreciate a good woman like myself.
2007-03-17 16:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most girls go for bad boys because there's something exciting and mysterious about them, but that feeling is short-lived and eventually they realize that the bad boy won't ever go good.
there are many nice girls out there who go for nice guys. don't ever try to change yourself or pretend to be something you're not to get a girl. trust me, there is a girl out there who likes you for who you are - you just haven't met her yet :)
2007-03-17 16:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by f0rever_dreaming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, because the nice guys always go for the b1tchy women and get hurt, why don't you go for a down to earth sweet woman?
2007-03-17 16:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because her DADDY is a bad boy!! Don't imitate him. What you are experiencing is him Sharing The Wealth (not sharing with you). He will grow to be an old man without a pot to piss in. Aim high.
2007-03-18 13:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by westphalia1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is how girls are. but there are those rare girls that are smart enough to get a nice guy and stick with him. i have also noticed that so yea if a girl dont like you for who you are, she is not worth you time
2007-03-17 15:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not have to 'accept' someone who ignores you. peace
2007-03-17 15:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋