Low self-confidence?

Question

ppl often tell me that i have a low self-esteem and that i worry too much/feel gulity for unecessary things. How can i change this and start worrying about me and my own life other than people's so much? share ur own experiences if u want. Thanks!

Answer 1

i think the first thing is to do just that STOP worrying about other people. i worried for a long time about what people thought of me. this led me to being someone i was not as i was so concerned they wouldn't like me. you can never really know what people are thinking so you will always be 2nd guessing yourself if you try.
just be yourself truley. people often warm more to people who can express their point of view confidently.

Answer 2

I would say based on what you said I am the same, but I got out of that whole thing, but after I feel I have done something wrong, I say I'm sorry way too much. and if I feel what I am about to say is going to be offensive I say no offense intended way too much.

I change quite a bit when I got into many fights with my parents, I finally, in my head and heart I just said

Fuc it, I am tired about worrying. I much more of an as hole but I get through every day saying the truth telling the truth and not feeling guilty or worrying.

hope fully it won't go like that for you, but this phase will end

peace, no drugs, light on the alchole, stay clean, few of us do.

Answer 3

Read "Co-Dependent No More" by Melody Beattie. Might be a real eye-opener for you!

Answer 4

Hi,
I have the perfect solution to your question, but it requires a little work on your part as does anything that is worth something!! You have to watch a movie called "the secret"!! It will provide some answers directly related to your question here. Its phenominal!! Please please please give it a try. What do you have to lose?
God Bless~~