so it has been almost three months since this guy dumped me.. and i Still continue to think about him constantly on and off and i just keep blaming myself for the cause of why it ended. because i have major regret in the fact that i did not Try hard Enough... because we never even actually became official boyfriend and girlfriend.. but you see, we were getting there.. one of our mutual friends told me that he was going to make me his gf soon and all this stuff, and he was still always texting and calling Every day and stuff... so i figured it was going to happen soon, so i was basically just waiting... but then all of a sudden it ended one night when his Best friend text me and said "he likes some other girl" and so that completely crushed me and i Still continue to regret everything and blame myself for it ending.. because i basically took it for granted and assumed things were progressing, so i didn't try harder to Get him there to be my bf. :( is it really all my fault?
2007-03-17 15:45:14 · 3 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The blame game is a lame game. Stop beating up on yourself...this instant. Sometimes the chips just don't fall, the cookies just don't crumble, whatever, honey, it just wasn't meant to be. He didn't really dump you; you weren't really together in the first place, and now that he's "with' some other girl, you seem to be looking back at what might have been. That doesn't get you anywhere fast. Just examine it for a bit, learn from it, and you'll be better for it. Regret tastes bitter. Life tastes sweet.
2007-03-17 15:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey I feel your pain...lol.. my boyfriend and I were only together for a little under a year, and its been four months since we broke up and I still agonize over it. Its very hard for the heart to mend after its been hurt. Anyways, I have the best book for you....Its called a breakup cause its broken.. seriously a very empowering motivational book...good luck hon!
2007-03-17 23:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Dawneen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That boy is dumb cause he liked you and then another girl. Sooner and later hes gonna become a cheater. Just let him go and stop caring for him, if not, you will be thinking about a dumb boy for a loooonng time.Go find someone else to talk to and HAVE FUN. =D
2007-03-17 22:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋