I'm six months pregnant and I haven't bothered to ask my boyfiend if he wants to have *** because I'm to insacure.
I feel unattractive and kinda fat. My boyfiend tells me I'm beautiful but I feel that he is just trying to be exstreamly nice
to me since I'm pregnant and he doesn't want to stress me out.
I don't know what to do to make myself look more attrative to him in the bedroom. Is it even possible to be able to still turn your boyfirend/partner on if your far along in pregnancy?
2007-03-17 15:40:42 · 17 answers · asked by Ang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you look fat. You are pregnant. there's no way around that. If he is your boyfriend then sure you can turn him on. He may not know that you are still in the mood. You should do some of the things that got you pregnant in the first place, LOL. Whatever you would do to get in the mood for sex just keep doing it. Or you could talk to him about it and let him know that you still want it.
2007-03-17 15:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a story for you. When I was pregnant, my husband wouldn't touch me (I tried). He didn't say anything nice either. During that time a man at work noticed me and thought I was absolutely beautiful (I didn't find that out till later). I left my husband before my baby's first birthday. I hooked up with the man, and was shocked that he noticed me and was attracted to me while I was heavily (7-9 months) pregnant.
Point is that yes it is possible. Either talk to him about it, or just start something. He's probably as scared to try to start something as you are, and doesn't want to pressure you.
I had a bad experience, but I've been told by many, many people that my experience is not normal.
2007-03-17 22:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by peanut g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, it is possible for men to be turned on by their pregnant wife or gf. My boyfriend was in heaven. He walked around with the attitude, yep, I did that. She's my girl and I did that. I am man.... and stuff like that. He was so proud. Still is. I haven't lost much of the weight either yet, but he says it is different now that we are parents, and he is turned on by my "motherly" body.
2007-03-17 22:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart darling honey pie,, dont do a single thing to impress your lover, he and you have a baby on the way,, so smile, jump up n down on the bed,, giggle run for joy and just always tell him every hour that you love him and need him forever and he means the world to you and if you want to run around in the bedroom for sex,, it would turn me on seeing you nakee or in the wide panty breifs and topless,, or even a cute towel over the breast and bottomless but dont change hon and dont be shy,, you will be sorry if you do, as the 9th month comes those labor pains are the worst so get to work on your sweetie spening every single moment you can making choices for the baby room and needs,,.... and just be careful on sex as you get closer,, the gino cologist will tell you when to stop with your app.. good luck and be yourself.. signed a caring parent
2007-03-17 22:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course men can be turned on by pregnant women. When I was pregnant, my husband loved to **** me, and I loved doing it. Because of the hormones, i was horny all the time, and it took nearly nothing to make me orgasm.. and orgasm,... and orgasm. It was the best sex of my life. And because of how easily I came, and I might add how noisy i was because it felt so good - he loved doing it.
Guys love it when they know their woman is horny and wants it bad.
For us, the favorite position was from behind, although later in my pregnancy, his penis sometimes hurt because he's rather large and sometimes would thrust too deep. I would say experiment and see which you like best.
2007-03-17 22:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by lastknown_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The existence of pornography with pregnant ladies starring in it proves some men are attracted to pregnant ladies.
2007-03-17 22:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife and i had a baby 10 months ago and it turned me on like no body knows that sexy bump and slight love handles to grab.
because of all the hormones she was far more sensitive and orgasomed better.
during her pregnancy we had it at least once everyday and we both loved it.
2007-03-17 22:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by dave_in_deal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with pregnant women.....they are still just as sexy as they were before pregnancy! However, it's been my experience that most women tend to lose their sex drive during pregnancy. If this is not your case.......than tell him.
2007-03-17 22:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pregnant, you shouldnt worry about this. Just focus on what your going to do after the baby, wait it out.
2007-03-17 22:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance was extremely turned on. I also found out my neighbor who is a guy loves pregnant women and found them very attractive.
2007-03-17 22:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋