OK, Im new to this?
I've recently gotten involved in a new realtionship? Its been almost a year since I've been with someone.
I've recently been spending time with this great guy who I met.
We really have a great time together. We've been dating for almost 3 weeks and have spent almost every other night together.
We talked around the subject of our relationship and he has confessed that he really likes me and he likes being with me. But we havent really labeled our relationship.
We've both been hurt and we don't know how to express our feeling cause of our past relationships.
He's line is "I make him feel all warm and fuzzy inside"
My questions is: Would you say he is trying to tell me Im his girlfriend? Im afraid to say he's my boyfriend. But would you take that as yes.. I am his girlfriend.
2nd-Would you say its too soon to tell him how much I like him. I wouldn't say Im in love .. but I really like him.
2007-03-17 15:38:01 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In answer to question 10 I would say NO ..you are not his girlfriend yet .... right now you are dating and making him warm and fuzzy (you are not exclusive at this point) ....give it a little more time.....................to question 2)yes...I would not give up too much yet ..it has only been three weeks...when he says he makes you warm and fuzzy ..agree ..say yes me too..but go slow...I am sure it will work out
2007-03-17 16:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by connie b 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it, but don't let it just go unleashed. You care for him, he cares for you, and you both know it. Let nature run its course, when the moment is right, you both will know. But on the other way things can go is my life Im currently living. I love this girl with all my heart, nothing I ould not do for her. She has a 5 year old kid and love him like a son. His dad beat the hell out of her whn they were together, and has done nothing for either of them for the last 2 years. I was there, ding what he should of been doing, her son calls me dad on accident sometimes, but I had been treated like a doormat in my past relationships so didn't want to reveal my feelings to her verbally to soon, so I did with my actions, things Ive done for her. I waite to long and foundmyself buried in the "friends" category of wich there is no return; and she is now trying to rekindle her relationship her the sperm donner who has broken her jaw 3 times in 8 years of thier relationship.
Speaking with her family she wanted things to happen, but I had let my fears silence my heart, and waited to long.
Take it one day at a time and don't try to force yourself, but then when the day comes that you feel a spark inside and you want to say I love you, don't hold it in. The spark you don't let out becomes a knife in your gut when you no longer have the option to be able to say it to the one who will only now be a friend friend.
2007-03-17 22:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by ellison_james_01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to say you like him if you spend alot of time together he knows. It seems like you are his girlfriend.. Maybe you can tell him how you feel and ask him if he wants to be in a committed relationship if that is what you want as well..make sure you are both on the same page
2007-03-17 22:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. If he says no. There you go. If he says yes, there you go. Ask him "So, if we run into someone I know, how should I introduce you? As my friend, as my boyfriend? I just want to be clear so when I have to introduce you, I make sure I have it straight." It's kind of a cute way to let him know that you're thinking about it without totally saying it. Plus, if he hates it or it makes him totally uncomfortable maybe he's not really for you.
2007-03-17 22:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by Daystar9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and go with the flow. If he's "warm and fuzzy", don't change anything. You can wait until he's starting to reveal more inner self more before moving towards the deeper needs you have.
2007-03-17 22:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are his girlfriend.
No, do not tell him how you feel. When you start doing that you will scare him. Let him reveal his feelings first. Wait to reveal your feelings...even that you like him.
It is assumed that if you are spending time together that you must like him or you wouldn't give him the time of day. Telling him that you like him is overkill.
2007-03-17 22:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dear Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you.If you to got now you do it, if you don't whait till your ready. I say go for it when you get the call. I don't now a thing on datting but I say heck you sound nice and he does so ok.
PS: do ya chain hang low
2007-03-17 22:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by numanuma201 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its been three weeks. omigosh. come on. dont set urslef up for more crap.
2007-03-17 22:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by Shanelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋