it sucks, every girl i meet either they aren't what i want to be in my daughter's life ( because i put her first to anyone ) or they don't want anything to do with me once i tell them i have a three year old daughter. has anybody gone through the same thing? i'm 30 years old by the way.
2007-03-17 15:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by BLAINE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you. I am a single mom of three boys. I have been told directly by men that they will not date me because of that!! The boys are a "liability" because guys know that the boys come first in my life.
Well, I figure that any guy who thinks like THAT is not worth my time...and I agree that you may be facing the same problem. People like that are self centered and want to be the center of a relationship...too smothering and jealous to realize priorities. You are better off alone than compromising yourself.
Have faith that the right person will come along when you least expect it.
2007-03-17 15:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dear Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right girl. That's all . They are out there. My husband was a single dad when I met him. I was a single mom also. Maybe you should try to date someone who has children also, then, they would understand you wanting to put your daughter first. Single women just really don't get that concept yet until they have their own kids.
2007-03-17 15:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gets easier to meet people when your girl gets in school. Lots of women want to be number one, and don't want to be partial custody step moms, which is their choice. You need to meet more family oriented women in organizations like PTA, Campfire, playgroups, Parents Without Partners, etc. This is where you will find someone who can cherish your daughter as much as you do.
2007-03-17 15:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried E-Harmony or Match.com, where you can read people's profiles and see if you can find someone with the same values as yourself, similar interests, and has a child about the same age as yours? It might be worth a try.
2007-03-17 15:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well blaine i feel for you, but what happened to the MOM?? i know sometimes our too proud to give a damn attitude can rip apart families, friendships, relationships, but children should not grow up in broken families. Idealy you'd want your kids to grow up with a mom and a dad but if your serial dating is coming to a dead end then try match.com :))
2007-03-17 15:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by DesiGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im a 21yr old single mom
i definitly understand how your feeling..every guy i meet once they find out i have a 2yr old,,they stop talking to me..
or if they continue they refuse to have any part in her life..
no matter what my child comes first :)
2007-03-17 15:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by mommy2savannah51405 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're doing u a favor cuzif they cant accept her that means they r no good pray 4 a good girl that accepts ur daughter
2007-03-17 15:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by pretty black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋