My boyfriend an I have mayjor communication problems. Whenever I don't like something he does, I try to talk to him about it, and he shuts down. Now it's over. I think it's unfair that he doesn't let me have an oppinion about anything, but here I am still trying to make it work with him shut off. :(
2007-03-17 15:32:30 · 3 answers · asked by Blue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
come on.. all these problems and youre still with him? the sex must be over the roof.. I know.
2007-03-17 15:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not work. .... I just left a marriage with the same problem. If they don't respect you enough to listen to your complaints and take them into consideration and know that these are important topics to you then they won't care about you. I am now in a good relationship and my boyfriend listens to what I have to say 90% of the time. That is all I could ask for.
2007-03-17 15:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by cinnapp1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...men are not into talking about their feelings. Most men do not want to talk about much at all. If they like something, they like it. They do not break down and analyze everything they liked/ disliked.
If he doesn't want you to think for yourself ..move onto another guy.
Men are not craft projects, you can't change them. I'm sure you get bored with things that other people rattle on about..
2007-03-17 15:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by tragedys_kiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋