Hey. How are you? From the moment we stopped talking, I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've worked on those things to improve myself. A special girl like you is hard to find, you're unlike any friend I've ever had. No other girl is as amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, and beautiful as you. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad, or your bright smile. I miss when we used to talk and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I really care about you and like I said, you're special to me. I'm tired of playing silly games around you, trying to act like you're not when you really are. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid for not understanding then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I
2007-03-17 15:15:00 · 14 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
had for you.
I've found out for myself it was better when you didn't like me in that way. Now that you don't like me at all, it's alot worse. For the things I've done, I'm really sorry. I was just afraid of losing you, so I did. I only want us to start over, pretend this whole thing never happened. I just want your friendship back, if it's ok with you. If what you want is to never see me or speak to me again, I will just try to let you go just because I only want to make you happy. (END)
Somehow, this merging of the letters I had, one I wrote and one that was shortened for me, doesn't feel right. Like I said in the question, I'm going to try before I give up. I'll make this the first one, and the second one below is the original one I wrote.
2007-03-17 15:17:35 · update #1
Hey. How are you? You know, ever since we stopped talking, (we haven't talked for 10 months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. It was because of you that I started working on those things. I know you probably still don't want to talk to me. It's just that a special girl like you is hard to find, you're unlike any friend I've ever had. No other girl is as amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, and beautiful as you. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad, or your bright smile. There was a time when I was feeling down that you could tell something was wrong because you know me. I'm the same way about you. I know you think I don't know you, and I know I don't know everything about you, but I want to know everything about you. I really care about you and like I said, you're
2007-03-17 15:18:41 · update #2
special to me. I'm tired of playing silly games around you, trying to act like you're not when you really are. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid for not understanding then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I had for you.
I've found out for myself it was better when you didn't like me in that way. Now that you don't like me at all, it's alot worse. For the things I've done, I'm really sorry. I was just afraid of losing you, so I did. I only want us to start over, pretend this whole thing never happened and if necessary forget that there was any mention of romantic interest between us. I know with you I don't have a chance. I just want your friendship back, if it's ok with you.
If what you want is to never see me or speak to me again, I will just try to let you go just because I only want to make you happy. (END of 2nd letter)
2007-03-17 15:19:41 · update #3
Here's the third one, the one I didn't write, but it's shorter and doesn't make me seem obsessive or like a punk
Hey. How are you? You know, ever since we stopped talking, I realized how much I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've really grown and worked on things to improve my life. I'll understand if you still think you made the best decision by breaking up with me, but I know that a special girl like you is hard to find. I'm grateful that you know me better than anyone else. I know that we had our ups and downs, and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I think there is a lot that we can learn about one another. I will respect whatever decision you make. Take care. (END of 3rd letter)
2007-03-17 15:20:45 · update #4
I don't want to sound like a player (cause I'm not) I don't want to sound needy (cause I'm not) I don't want to sound like I'm not telling the truth (cause I am)
2007-03-17 15:23:36 · update #5
I know to look in her eyes (I can't help but too) but what if she doesn't look in mine?
2007-03-17 15:25:40 · update #6
Damn, son you're gonna put her to sleep. Good luck!!
2007-03-17 15:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by smartazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sounds great, but no. Shes gonna know youve been practicing it, just tryin to spit some game at her, Ive tried she married with a kid now to a piece of crap. Just tell her you're sorry for whatever you did and look her in the eyes and be yourself man, put thought into a poem pr a song or whatever when she's happy with you, It'll only make her feel better then, We you don't wont to loose her fr the rest of your life, you got to seak from the heart, and that can't be pre-meditated. Don't turn out like me, just start talking and whatever comes out is what you really feel, she'll see it. And you'll see her
2007-03-17 22:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by ellison_james_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! That was tough reading those 3 different letters. I'd go with the 3rd one, The other 2 seemed too desperate with all that flattery and all. Sure hope you get to be friends with her again. It's very obvious how much she means to you.
2007-03-17 22:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course say this to her..what are you waiting for? And now that you waited so long to tell her what have you got to lose?
Tell me why guys won't share their feelings for a girl until they lose her. Guys make us feel so unwanted, then when we girls decide to move on, they change their mind. At least you are smart enough to tell her now...Good luck..
2007-03-17 22:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ann Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am not lying 2 you about this, but the content in your speech is PERFECT. but, like many people, you are not going to say everything you plan on saying. your actual speech is going to be alot shorter. what i would recommend is that you make is short enough so that it doesnt sound rehearsed and monotonous. just say whats on your mind and if she dont like you, then she is not worth your time
2007-03-17 22:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can download the book "How to get your ex back" online. It really has some great advice that it sounds like you need right now.
2007-03-17 22:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, what really touches a girl's heart if you can make it as personal as it can get, so if you could, you can describe all the pretty things she does that got you to think about it.
other than that, its so sweet =)
2007-03-17 22:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so cute, but you sound like a player
2007-03-17 22:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by Chisty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sweet. I wouldnt give up....she would be a fool if she didnt take you back.
2007-03-17 22:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ...go for it...looks good.,,,but end it ..at
"you're special to me"!!!!...the rest looks/ sounds as not making sense ...and sound too vague to me at least.
2007-03-17 22:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Roberto D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋