2007-03-17 15:14:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not gay
2007-03-17 15:30:20 · update #1
yep..sign of a player..why so many dud relationships..is he a cheater..is he too controlling...all these questions come to mind...
2007-03-17 15:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by britlynn18 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what "many many" is and how old he is....is he a womanizer or just liked to casually date? Did he make a lot of bad choices or not want to commit?
It might bug me if he was so lousy with women the failed relationships were mostly his fault...or because he was playing women and going from one to another...
If he just liked to date, and was open about it though...and preferred to keep things casual more often than he'd commit, then I wouldn't have an issue with that...however I'd wonder if he had standards that were too high for most (if any) women to realistically meet...
2007-03-17 15:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt necessarily be a turn off. But rather you should ask yourself why has he had so many girlfriends, What happens in his past is in the past but if he has commitment issues or he cant be trusted then you should find out now before getting involved
2007-03-17 15:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by ~sassy23~ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily.. but it does make you wonder... especially if he had Many girlfriends in a short amount of time.. because that would mean it's not a very big committer and may be somewhat of a player. but i live for the moment, so if he likes me then then his past is his past and it's not that big of an issue or turn-off to me.. but if it's Many Many girlfriends you have to be cautious that he might not be too caring about girls...
2007-03-17 15:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by coolio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends... how long have the relationships lasted? Was the person using them? Who broke the Relationship? if any of those question has a bad answer then yes its a turn off
2007-03-17 15:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... omg.. you don't even know.. see i once dated this guy at my school.. and i found out he was a cheater,but i was so stupid that even when he cheated on me i went back out with himm... not just 1 more time.. .but 4 and i learned my lesson. if he can't just have one flavor of ice cream he doesn't need any... if that made any sense lol?! hope i helped...(sorta kinda)
sincerely,
life truly is a highway
2007-03-17 15:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it should'nt be.. Depends on your maturity. All guys have had girlfriends and if you want a virgin guy, adopt a baby boy from birth and keep him below your eyes.
It's just normal and accept the invigorating fact he is not a gay...
2007-03-17 15:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sometimes yes and sometims no. more gf's usually mean more experience but also there is a reason he has had so many.
2007-03-17 15:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really a turn off but it is a bit worrying.
2007-03-17 15:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by -mary; the one and only. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
naw not really as long as hes clean...it jus prolly says hes a good guy is all
2007-03-17 15:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by honney bunny 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋