How do you get rid of this feeling that makes you say stupid things. This is my first actual date. Is this normal? Will it stop after this date? I know that getting nervous isn't going to help anything but it's really hard to control. I need help Please!
2007-03-17 15:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I use music, and then when I drive i listen to it because I know it will calm me down.
2007-03-17 15:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so normal to be nervous on a first date with anyone, this is your very first date ever, wow, that is so sweet. Being nervous is a good sign that you really like the girl you are taking out. It will get easier, but I hope you are never not nervous before a date with anyone, it will change things if you aren't. This feeling that you are experiencing is special and believe me she is feeling it too. Have a good time. Make sure you have a plan in place. Know where you are taking her. Be polite and pay attention to what she says. Good Luck. Don't forget to breathe and it will be a great date.
2007-03-17 15:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol your telling me. once I was so nervous, when he picked me up I just sat there a smiled. count say a word. saying stupid things is better then sitting there looking like you downed a bottle of Prozac and plastered on a smile. just breathe deep. sorry to say it wont stop. maybe after the first date but it comes back for every new person. more then once if you really like them. ask questions, find out more about them. then in turn you'll get to relax and have fun. think happy. think good times. think "I am amazing." and if you believe it, you will be. =)
2007-03-17 15:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a hot bath and let all your muscles relax, then take some deep breaths before you go on the date, look up at the sky and say a little prayer,
2007-03-17 15:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol loosens things up quite nicely, i find. just dont have too much, ya hear?
ha....
no, its not going to stop after this date. keeps going on and on. once you suck face with that person, though, any future moments with them suddenly become less awkward.
2007-03-17 15:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by PBaddict 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out ( http://www.reducingstress.net )
They have a lot of good information and tips that can help you.
Good luck.
2007-03-18 07:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually if u jerk off before u go it actually calms u down just try it
2007-03-17 15:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by slimplaya09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋