sometimes i think there's something really wrong with how i was raised.. i know i'm an adult and i need to take responsibiltiy but i'm 28 years old and never had a serious healthy relationship and neither has my brother 25.. he's even worse than me because he's never had a girlfriend ever.. i've had boyfriends but they always treat me very bad.. i'm not bragging but we are both very attractive and are from a wealthy family so it's not that people aren't attracted to us.. for some reason we don't know how to make a relationship with someone else.. i'm more worried for my brother than i am for me because he doesn't have any friends or a girl.. the weird thing is, my parent's have been married 32 years and are very social.. i'm not sure what's wrong with us..
2007-03-17 15:11:58 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing is wrong with you guys.
maybe you just have to go out and socialize.
you'll just have to wait for that person to come along.
maybe its your personality. or the other persons.
it'll work outt.
good luckk. :]]
2007-03-17 15:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sierra. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25, and have never been kissed, or had a girlfriend.
It's difficult to try and meet complete strangers. Most people who get married met each other as friends, or through friends and friendships.
Friendship is a little treacherous, though. There are often "leaders" of the group. They may be a little rough around the edges, and sometimes you have to tolerate more obnoxiousness than you really want, and if you don't, they get the whole group to dislike you.
Don't fret so much about not having had anything permanent. If you were in a relationship before, that's leagues ahead of me. Every time I think I'm coming close, things fall apart. You know, I've never received a text message from a girl in my entire life, and I've only spoken to one on the phone for like 60 seconds tops. I mention this because I know how significant airtime is in the indication of what's serious and what's not.
I can't offer any comforting words, or solutions. I can only say that misery loves company.
2007-03-17 15:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both afraid of being a failure to your parents and not having a lasting relationship like them, I think you should find someone to talk to about this and get some help and advice on how to work through this. Then maybe you can help your brother to and possibly convince him to get the same help you got. Good Luck!
2007-03-17 15:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything will turn out, Maybe you need to try new things, and meet new people, and don't let men treat you badly don't repeat old habits. good luck!
2007-03-17 15:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by onelittlecatfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a therapist. The problems are probably in how you were treated as a child.
2007-03-17 15:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by peanut g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you guys have a bad attitude and are stuck-up. If not, then ppl might be intimidated by u guys.
go out and have fun, meet new ppl, fall in love
2007-03-17 15:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋