I just wanted to know what would some females do in this situation.?

Question

I just wanted to know what would some females do in this situation. Lets say your man wants you to come over his house, ( he live with his grandma and sister). He tell you that his grandma will be gone. So you are about to leave your house to go to his, mind you, you were texting each other before you left your house. Then when you leave you get no response from him. you call his cell, work phone, and house phone and still dont get him. Would you still go to his house knowing that there is a possibility that you would have to go back home and remember the weather is very bad too. Also, you are aware that when he is with his baby mother he does not answer any of your calls aswell. Wouldn't you think he is with her and if you do would you still go to his house like a fool or wait for him to call and say he is up or he is busy and not to come? Please someone tell me what you would do because he is upset that I didnt come over........

I dont think I should have went to his house because I dont know if he was sleeping or his baby mother popped up you know. Then he told me his sister and her friend was there and they were on the phone in the living room and if I would have knocked they would have opened the door because he feel asleep. But how would I know, he made it seem like everyone was leaving and he is the only one home. I was not trying to go all the way to his house and be turned back. The bus does not come that often and it is to much snow/ice on the ground.

Its not like I didnt give him enough time to wake up because I started calling him around 5:30pm to tell him I had to go back home and up until 8pm is when he called me. So he is telling me to go to his house and wait for him to wake up?- I cant do that.

Answer 1

Love is a crazy thing, believe me. You two are to be blamed, you can't just blame him alone. You need to meet his family if you are serious with this relaionship and sometimes you have to take risks. Like taking hat bus in the snowstorm to go see your love. This is the best time. It's romantic. you just coming out of the cld and into the warmt of his arms. Romantic isn't it? It seems to me like you are trying to avoid his family or you would have gone. You could have easily woken him up if he was sleeping with a kiss.
Hi on the other hand is wrong in so many ways. Knowing that you were coming but leaving you all on your own and in the weather.It seems to me that he has problems and if he keeps burying ihis head in the sand and hope that it will all go away, it willget bigger. Has he told his baby mother about you? If he has, no matter if she's okay with it or not, he should answer your calls when she's presnt because your the one in his life now. I'm guessing he didn't, so when you call, he ignores it and she still think that she(the baby mother) still have a chance with him. One day when you call and he's with his baby mother, she'll answer the phone and give you attitude. Confront him about it.
You have to have willpower in this relationship.
-He seems to love you, yet he ignores you when he's with another woman.
-He seems to love you, yet he invites you over when nobody is around.
-He seems to love you, yet leaves you out in cold all by your self.
-The main point is, he seems to love you, but doesn't knw how to treat a woman. Maybe that's why he lost his baby mother:-) Kidding.
-You love him too. or else you wouldn't put up wih this foolishness so long, no offense.
What you need to do is lay out the law and change things. Tell him what you're uncomfortable with. He's going to tell you he'll work on it. Watch him. If he doesn't straighten up his act. He doesn't deserve you. You're a woman of integrity and grace.You have personality. You deserve to be treated much better. Love is a ride. The tire will go flat once in a while, you have to work on it. Some love come easy, some come hard. It's your choice. Choose well. Good luck.

Answer 2

I would have turned and gone back home. Its not worth your health to sit and wait for someone especially in bad weather. If he wanted to see you that bad he should have stayed up

Answer 3

Whoh! Drama queen.

Answer 4

if it is raining go, if there is like a tornado watch or something then no. wait about 30 minutes and if he still doesn't call or answer don't go.

Answer 5

This sounds way to confusing and complicating and to many people are involved and it sounds like you need to be hidden, so me personally i would stay away!

Answer 6

that doesn't seem right i wouldn't of went over his house either. besides who goes to sleep especially when they know you are coming over. there is defintely something fishy going on

Answer 7

to much drama for me to bother with any of it