okay so how do you get over a best friend that you liked and they liked you but i didnt really get too involved with because he is leaving in three months and i didnt want to ruin things but i still like him and want to get over him? i never want to think about him again ha ha.
2007-03-17 15:07:36 · 17 answers · asked by fifteenlovegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes drinking is good but i am only fifteen and i get in trouble for it.
2007-03-17 15:13:52 · update #1
Drinking yourself into a state of oblivion is never a good solution, more especially when you are only 15. I guess if you were 60 and had no responsibility or further reason to live...
Anyway, life, love, and friendship are too precious to waste. You're 15. That means you're probably in for a lot of pain and anguish. Might as well revel in it. Besides, you can still write one another, and who knows? In 5 years you might reunite. That may seem like an eternity now, but 5 years from now it will have seemed like a fleeting instant, and you will wonder to yourself what happened to that 15 year old girl you can hardly remember.
2007-03-17 15:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to doing the things that you did before you met him. Hang out with your friends and stay occupied. Don't give yourself the time to sit around by yourself thinking about what could have been...it only makes things worse, trust me I've done it. Focus your attention and time on the things that you have neglected and place those as your first priority.
Please don't take the advice of those who said get drunk cuz nothing good every comes from that. It may last for a moment, but when the feeling is over you still find yourself facing the same problem. Good luck!
2007-03-17 22:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by jmo2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saddly, id like an answer to that myself. but the heart wants what the heart wants. the best thing i can think of is to spend a weekend getting it all out with chocolates in love movies, think it over, then if its not too painful, and at first it may seem wrong, but find a guy you like a little and date him. just make sure he knows you want to start off casually. and the more you talk to him and the more you spend time with him, eventually youll start to think about your best friend less and less, and saddly, someday, you will go a whole day without thinking about him at all. if you stop talking to him for good, itll all go bye faster.
2007-03-17 22:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by dandaman3523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me you will feel like this lots of times before you mature. You are young so just concentrate on enjoying yourself.
Love will come eventually when you are ready and not a minute before, you don't want to be tied down with kids when you are young and divorced before you have time to live.
Good Luck
2007-03-17 22:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never try to get over it. I still love her and my obsession to her never diminish.
I know I can never have her, but I simply keep her alive in my head. I think it is a beautiful thing to have someone that desirable, even you can not have her.
I think you can do the same, but don't hurt yourself, love and hurt do not have to be there the same time.
2007-03-17 22:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sir W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just go on with life. You can sit in sorrow sulking all day trying to forget, but that only makes you remember more and more and more. Occupy yourself to keep your mind on other things, and it wont seem so bad after only a little while.
2007-03-17 22:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by ellison_james_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it was time as time went on i just got over the person. i would suggest to stay busy and possibly get out there and meet someone new
2007-03-17 22:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, time can heal all wounds no matter how painful in the heart or soul they can be. Give it time, Good Luck!
2007-03-17 22:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time and put some distance between yourself and that person. Hopefully you don't work with that person. If you don't then just don't go where you know you will see them.
2007-03-17 22:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by darth_momm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time sweetie, its hurts, and I know it sound stupid but time. Just do things to occupy your mind like movies, exercise, treat yourself to something nice and interact with other people, rely on your friends
2007-03-17 22:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋