So, question?? There is this really nice guy that I have been dating. Trouble is that in the bedroom we don't click. What to do? Do I try to work on it or just move on?? Thing is he is really a nice genuine guy which is big to me right now because I got out a relationship recently that I was being cheated on all the time. I am still hurt about it....but I want to give this guy a chance.
2007-03-17 14:59:44 · 8 answers · asked by pink 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have issues that have nothing to do with the guy...make sure you are healed before getting into a new relationship...or it will end just like the last one.
As far as the bedroom.... it takes time for 2 people to be in sync with what each other likes.... I would say you are still comparing him to the last guy...that's not exactly fair is it.
2007-03-17 15:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clicking in the bedroom is very rare. So are really nice guys. Ask him what he likes and suggest. Be patient and understanding. Those much older that 24 understand that the nice guy thing is really a big part of what's important. If he is a good man, he is a keeper. If it fits pray together for help in satisfying each other in every way, not just in the sack.
2007-03-17 22:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by 1040 Agent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there something there, you know "it" but in the bed it isn't working? Have you tried talking to him, tell him what you want, or need? IF "it" isn't there move on, you will only hurt him more in the long run. If you have talk and can't find common ground in the bed room, like he is trying to be sweet and you want an animale, tell him what wrong. Women always say that men don't talk, and then they don't talk. but if you talk and it isn't getting any better, then again move on. Often women who have been cheated on, have a hard time staying with a man who doesn't because she doesn't know who to act, and then she starts cheating on him to get the drama that she had with the cheater.
2007-03-17 22:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the two of you have not clicked because of time.Just like emotions and personalities,sex takes time to understand the other person.Once you figure it out,WOW! It's a learning process.Being naked and intimate is usually a little awkward the first couple of times,until you "learn" each other.Give it a little more time and if it's an on-going problem you might want to re-evaluate everything.Good luck!
2007-03-17 22:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a nice guy, he deserves a chance for sure, here's a cure, Watch porn together, I know how it sounds, but just try it, and see if it helps.
2007-03-17 22:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by onelittlecatfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on .... it shoulded had clicked , if you decide to stay
with him...soon you'll see you messed up....and then you'll
be in a deeper hurt....so avoid going any deeper into
this relationship and end it...for it does not matter how nice he is....if you stay ..regarless how nice he is, you are going to
eventually cheat on him due to lack of passion in bedroom.
2007-03-17 22:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Roberto D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
communication is the key to any relationship working...if your not happy with him sexually you should talk to him...not in a degrading way...maybe offer him advice on things you like...masturbate together...talk to him though....if you want to make it work you need to be open and honest with him
2007-03-17 22:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by kevin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work with it how long have you dated he may not be sure what you like show him
2007-03-17 22:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋