so im with this guy he is [19] i am [14] he is really sweet and nice. we hang out alot and he takes me dancing. he opens doors for me , pays my way into places. just a really sweet person. but sometimes he asks me for to mcuh. it makes me a lil angry. but idk wat to do. should i dump him or keep him? plus the underage thang. im afraid of getting him into trouble
2007-03-17 14:48:29 · 19 answers · asked by santana w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was 14 I lived with a guy who was 18, and it was a really unhealthy relationship. I think if you two get along and like eachother then age doesnt matter, but if he bothers you just end it.
2007-03-17 14:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is wrong in many ways he could get in so much trouble. I mean y do u think that a gu that's 19 is with a girl that is 14 there is only one thing thats on his mind even if he is the sweetiest thing that has ever come in to ur life... i would watch out.
2007-03-17 14:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by country 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're 14 it matters. Some guys just want one thing and after they get it, its over for you. Then if you got a stork coming, he maybe don't want to know you. And then your life and career changes and suddenly it goes down a totally different path. If you were to get married, you have to live on very little income. The whole scene is not worth it. Been there.
regards,
2007-03-17 14:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by 1st Liberal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude or anything, but why the hell would a 19 year old want anything to do with a 14 year old?
You might've heard that age doesn't matter, which is true in some cases, but when it's illegal, that's when it does matter!
2007-03-17 14:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
afraid of you getting in trouble?????
Try him sweety he is 19 and have you ever heard of the saying 5 will get you 10? meaning being alone with you 5 minutes and anything happens he can get up to 10 years in prison so for out of kindness towards him and best for you, break it off now and ask him if he is willing to wait 4 years ,if he really likes you enough he will..Good luck
2007-03-17 14:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too old for you sugar, and i'd question why an adult male would be interested in dating a girl barely a teen anyway.
Let him go and stick with guys more your age (under 18) until you are no longer a minor. He's asking you for too much because he's an adult and he's ready for things you won't be ready for, for a few years.
Age does matter.
2007-03-17 14:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Mr 19 year old could be in danger of prison time and labled a sex offender for life for "hanging out" with a 14 year old.
2007-03-17 14:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be afraid....he should be afraid. You are a minor and he is an adult. Can you say Jail? Can you say Prison? Can you say...your bf is going to be bubbas girl friend?
Break up or start figuring out how to smuggle a file in to him.
2007-03-17 14:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 4 years, age will not matter
BUT right now. He could get into serious trouble.
2007-03-17 14:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMTHING WRONG WITH A 19 YEAR OLD WANTING TO DATE A 14 YEAR OLD ASK YOUR PARENTS HE BELONGS IN JAIL DUMP HIM AND DATE SOMEONE YOUR AGE
2007-03-17 15:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by wayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋