because there is a small posibility that i can have a relationship with my best friend, i guess we're just waiting for the other to make a move, but i have heard from a lot of ppl that it doesnt work... what do you guys say?
2007-03-17 14:42:45 · 21 answers · asked by nickname 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think if ya'll know each other good enough and she's ur best friend go 4 it ur lover is suposed to be ur best friend good luck
2007-03-17 14:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by erika b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you mean intimate relationship, not personal (if you are best friends, it's already quite personal)...it can be a great thing, or it can ruin a friendship....it depends on the people involved.
No matter what though, if it doesn't workout, the friendship will be changed forever...perhaps not in a negative way, but after you've been intimate there will always be something different about the friendship when compared to a time before that occured...if the friendship is maintained....
This could be the kewlest love of your life though...there's no way to know until you take that chance...you both just have to decide if it's worth the risk if things happen to not work out.
2007-03-17 21:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it doesn't work and the two are better off as platonic friends, but sometimes relationships between two best friends turn out to be the best. I say make a move! If it doesn't work you can go back to just being friends; it might be awkward at first but since you were so close to begin with you'll get over it. But go for it if it feels right! You might regret it if you don't.
2007-03-17 21:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can have a relationship between two best friends.. Nothing wrong with it. However if you are meaning an affair, well.. don't begin unless you are sure how the other person feels about it. Test the grounds by simple questions and you may understand his/her feelings
2007-03-17 21:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys truly like each other give it a try. Before having a relationship you guys should talk and agree to still be friends even if something happens. I say go for it.
2007-03-17 21:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What better person to have a relationship with?
You know each others likes and dislikes, you don't have to pretend to be something your not. Give it a shot- if the relationship works, great. If not- hopefully you'll still be friends.
2007-03-17 21:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by rapger54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the only relationship that works. You must cling to the friendship and always protect it from harm, no matter what the emotions of the moment bring. Dont lose the honesty and spontaneity of the friendship... enhance it with the goodies that you dont share now. PERFECTION.
2007-03-17 21:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by 1040 Agent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea,there is a posibilty that you can have a relationship with your best friend,becuz if girl and a guy knows each other for so long,then maybe in awhile they might realized that they can be more than just a friend.Thats why we become friends with them first,get to know them really well.But sometimes the other they just don't want to ruined there friendship,but if you really like her and stuff just tell her how you feel before its to late
2007-03-17 21:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by divinarose1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really think it would work for awhile sure go ahead but if theres any chance that it wont work out then dont take that chance, a lot of friendships are ruined with relationships. so if you really think itll work out and you wanna take the chance go ahead but let it be known that it might not end well and you might lose your best friend.
2007-03-17 21:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Brianna*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is not a good idea to have a personal relation with your bestt friend because maybe she wont treat you seriously that is why having a serious relation with a bes friend is not a good idea, but is your decision, she is a girl right?
2007-03-17 21:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? It's the best idea! Your "mate" should be your best friend. What could be better? Just make it clear that if the "lovey-dovey" part doesn't work out that you'll remain friends. Go with your heart.
2007-03-17 21:47:05 · answer #11 · answered by RickinAlaska 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋