OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.
2007-03-17 14:38:59 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're not dating anymore and we're not really friends. What causes us to keep talking to each other, especialy him, why does he still wanna keep in contact? Does he miss me or playing me?
2007-03-17 14:40:33 · update #1
You are part of his past and some men have a difficulty in letting go of his women eventhough the feeling has died down. Maybe he does not want to lose contact with you and would like you to remain as his friend. You should treat him like your friend too and start dating with other guys.
2007-03-17 14:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lavender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is probably interested in you but doesn't want to be your "boyfriend" since he most likely needs more in a relationship than just kissing and cuddling, especially at 26 yrs old. (Most people do- I am 20 and I would not call that a serious relationship). Plus, if the most communication you have is through msn, that is another bad sign, if he was really interested, he would phone. If you are interested in waiting until marriage for sex than I would suggest finding someone with this same goal. Good Luck!
2007-03-17 14:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by ophierose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably he just wanted to stay friends w/ u.and staying in contact is his way of doing it.
2007-03-17 14:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by m1021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋