If i told a girl i liked her and she rejected me, but i still like her a while after, should i tell her again?

Question

if she said she didnt feel the same way as me, but i still like her some time after, should i tell her again in hopes that i can get better results or should i just resignate to the idea that there is no posibility between us?

i told her i liked her around august of 06 and well i still have something for her now. we have some of the best chemistry, i think, i've ever had with anyone, we laugh together, we understand eachother in everything.. simply i like the way she is in every way

Answer 1

Sometimes people like to play "hard to get" so you might try one more time to be sure! I hate that- some people can be so difficult to read, especially ones that you like who lead you on and then reject you- nasty! How about a new strategy. If she turns you down a second time and she seems to be leading you on, ignore her. Instead, try and find out what makes her tick and try an indirect approach (like in the movie Ground Hog Day with Bill Murry)! Prentend to like other people and do amazing things to catch her by surprise while you pretend to ignore her! If this does not work, then it's definitely time to forget her and move on.

Answer 2

Leave it be. She knows if she wants a chance with you all she has to do is let you know. If you thrive on pain and rejection then tell her again. Take relationships slow. When you begin having feelings for the next girl, don't rush things or reveal your feelings until you think she may like you as well. Too much info too quickly can chase a girl off. The flirting game needs to be in play awhile before the admission. The build up can be really exciting. Good luck with your next love.

Answer 3

Yea dude just leave it alone never ask the same question twice to a girl! Never!!! lol keep that in mind when you see her in a party act like your having the time of your life with other girls though not her. Say hello and say something nice about her look or something and than walk away and have fun.

Answer 4

You should just stay neutral for now, and see what she thinks over time. She may have started liking you as more than a friend, but she may have just stayed in the same position she was before. You can talk to her about it, but don't make any moves to ask her out suddenly, because she may just think you're being too persistent and it's starting to get annoying. Have fun!

Answer 5

I think it is reasonable if she has an good heart and is really forgiving. Most girls wouldn't want an guy that broke their heart really badly, but if you show her that you changed and you are willing to make up what you did, I think you might have an chance.

Answer 6

Go for it! Don't let her lead you on. If you want to know, you have to ask her again. Make sure she knows you'll stay friends even if that's all she wants. The worst thing that could happen is that she'll turn you down again.

Answer 7

I know you like her, but respect yourself to let it go and move on. If she changes her mind, I'm sure she'll let you know. But don't continue to drag yourself down by waiting to see if things change. Time is precious. You may find someone else that you like even more. You shouldn't have to "beg" someone for affection. You seem like too nice of a person for that. Good luck!!

Answer 8

NO,just get a makeover and just treat her like any other of your guy friends.Soon she will be sticking to you like glue and since she thinks that you don't like her anymore then she will do anything to win your heart.

Answer 9

No move on, if she doesn't want you, she is just going to make you feel like YOUR not worth it, but in reality SHE'S NOT WORTH IT, if she rejects you, so move on, your soul mate is out there somewhere! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 10

I would say dont tell her again, just ask her to come to a group event and see how it goes