I really liked this guy (almost to the point of love) and I asked him out, but he said no. I've already accepted this fact as well as I can, but it's been well over three months, and my heart still hasn't been able to emotionally heal. I still think about him ( I thought I was supposed to have moved on by now!) Should I just accept the fact that I still like him, or should I go about trying to heal myself? If so, how?
From a very confused gal
Serious answers only please
Thnx for all your help
2007-03-17 14:30:51 · 7 answers · asked by julia 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW..NO..HE JUST SAID TO YOU...HMMM HEAL YOURSELF AND MOVE ON..WHEN THAT HAPPENS I AM SURE HE WILL COME TOWARDS YOU LATER ON AND ADMITS TO REGRET HIS WORDS....YOU WILL LOVE ANOTHER GUY AGAIN,I KNOW YOU WILL...LOVE IS TRUST AND FEELING SECURE WHEN YOU ARE WITH HIM..THE BOTTOM LINE IS>>>IT WAS ALL YOU FEELING LOVE.............
2007-03-17 15:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by virgo7134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dealt with a guy like that before and at first I was fully attracted to him but the feeling was not the same at first we worked together so we seen alot of each other I kinda like just gave him my number one day and he never called but we still talked at work alot and we did have alot in common I quess I must have eventually grown on him cuz were not together now but that another story but he did come to care about a great deal even after I gave him my # and he said he was going through some things talk to guy some more he may be going through something or just need someone to talk to and u could be the perfect one to get to know him oh yeah, and I don't think ur desperate cuz u ask him out good luck!!!!
2007-03-17 14:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tressybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just move on. Just make sure his feelings hasn't changed. I mean, if it's been over 3 months, he might've started liking you.
2007-03-17 14:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant women ask men out? there is nothing wrong with it. for one congrats to you for askin him out. and as to u hurting. i think u need to find a hobby to keep your mind off him, be with your friends, maybe find another guy, to be friends with and then see. but dont sit around and be all depressed and upset over this guy. move on, he obviously isnt worth u waisting your youth over!
2007-03-17 14:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually in the same position! I am so sad. I just keep hoping. Ya know, you can pray to God and he will help you out. God bless!
2007-03-17 14:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by IloveJesus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you girls asking guys out? is it that desperate today for girls? aren't girls pretty enough to be asked out anymore? i have no idea what is going on but me and my friends used to get calls from the guys, not call them.
2007-03-17 14:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get over him! he doesn't like you. move on. you should find a guy who does and you like him!
2007-03-17 14:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋