I know it takes time. But what I have done is to pretend that the person does not exist anymore. Almost like they are dead. That is the only way that I can deal with it. How have you delt with it?
2007-03-17 14:27:43 · 6 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun, there is no way to deal with a break up that you cared for so much. you will always have feelings for that someone. i still do after three years. you can't avoid them and pretend they're not there. he will still talk to you, and granted, you'll talk to him. it will feel awkward at first, but you'll get over it.
2007-03-17 14:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Krista Nielsen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that. My ex-boyfriend actually did die and that makes it worse...there is nothing resolved there...we didn't break up from a bitter fight or anything like that...I sit here to this day 5 yrs later and wonder what it would be like with him. I miss him still and still cry about it. If I were you I would try to find something to do in your spare time. If you track when you think about him the most just make that be a time you are with friends or doing something you like to keep your mind occupied and maybe that will help you to move on. Good luck
2007-03-17 21:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to get another guy, it will keep him off youre mind and thinking about the new one. But this isnt for all people maybe you should try hanging out with friends more. And going out. Or do something productive to keep it off youre mind.
2007-03-17 21:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you trying to forget them? im tryna do the same thing too.
try finding things to do that keep you TOTALLY occupied. spend time with people that have nothing to them. or just find someone else.
.. if it was true love... its really hard. im sorry. good luck
2007-03-17 21:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by wateverinfinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but it takes time...throw yourself into something you like..work..a gym..something you like..It takes time and time heals!
2007-03-17 21:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep as busy as possible. It is a greif process even though they didn't die.
2007-03-17 21:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋