Does love really exist? or is it just an illusion??
i am asking this question cuz it seemed as if me and my girlfriend really loved each other and then she broke up with me saying she realized she didnt love me and now we barely talk but i cannot stop thinking about her i cannot get over her sure ive kissed other girls but its not helping like i thought it would. i ask myself if im love but then i ask myself if love really is real or its just an illusion and im not talking about the love a parent has for their child but FALLING in love with another person does it really truly exist or is it merely an illusion
2007-03-17 14:24:23 · 6 answers · asked by robin c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've felt it, so why would you question its existence? Don't be under the false impression that it lasts forever...most things have a beginning and an ending, and that includes love.
Enjoy it when you experience it...and look forward to the next time when it ends.
2007-03-17 14:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a very complex question.. that ur going to get a lot of answers for... theres a diff between loving somewun and being in love... look at it lik this.. she might of loved u but wasnt in love with u... love exist its jsut a matter of figuring out what kind of love u have for that person and if its worth pursuing. Love can be an illusion as well as it can be real and mutual.. its a matter of luck really... everywun has a true love its just having the luck to finding that person and keeping them when they find them... for love to not be an illusion itll have to be completely mutual. You only truly love once and u wont ever forget that person... but thats beacuse u will always love them...
2007-03-17 21:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by .....!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love does exist, and you are learning all about that first hand. because now that she is gone -- you can feel it -- But you are young, so do not -- and I repeat DO NOT let it consume you or it will eat you alive -- and your manhood will be no more. You have to take the bad with the good -- and learn from both. What did you learn from that relationship?
What did you like about her?
What didn't you like about her?
what didn't she like about you? and so on learn from the experience and move on. Learn just what you like -- vs. just eye candy. And don't look for her you both will find each other when you least expect it -- so be patient.
2007-03-17 21:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Quest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love...illusion or truth? What if love is only an instinct, a belief society created-and what if there wasn't a society?-would love still have existed? The only answer I can find is that you can't deny, you can only feel...
2007-03-18 11:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by ocean_breeze_dia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's deep. but Yes i believe in love. i think that in a way it is somewhat an illusion.. because love makes you delirious.. it causes you to be blind a lot of the time and it causes you to do things and feel things that you never have before. i believe love is real.. but basically love is when you care so much about a person that you would do anything to ensure their safety and well-being and happiness, and you think about them before yourself because of it.. so basically you Care about your ex.. and she obviously doesn't care all that much about you if she'd rather move on to someone else than be with an amazing guy like you. you just weren't Perfect for each other.. because she didn't feel the Same way.. you were on two different levels. usually one person in the relationship falls for the other More.. and yes i believe you were in love, i'm sorry that happened to you... but you will fall in love with someone else who loves you back just as much and wants to spend every moment with you because love is when you can't imagine your life with anyone else. and they make you so happy. it has nothing to do with You either that she didn't love you.. it just happens.. and it sucks. but love does exist.. you have experienced it... and why you can't stop thinking about her is because You Never Forget Your First Love. sorry and best wishes to you!!!!
2007-03-17 21:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course love exists. Don't expect to forget your ex-girlfriend, whom you loved, by simply kissing other girls. You will find love again, but for now try to forget your ex-girlfriend.
2007-03-17 21:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by socalcrazydiamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋