Okay i have a boyfriend but theres this other i guy who i went to school with and lately we have been talking to each other everyday on the phone and going to see each other..And he knows i have a boyfriend but he still likes me but he doesn't try to force me to break up with with my bf but we have got on that subject..I like my bf and so do my parents but honestly i feel that me and the other guy have way more fun together but i don't think my parents will like him cause he kind of messes with drugs but he respects me by not doing it in front of me and i know my parents won't like him cause of that but he's really nice to me and we are just more comfortable around each than me and my boyfriend . I'm confused about who i really want 2 be with!My bf on the other hand is also cute and nice and i know he really likes me and i don't want to hurt his feelings..And i know the other guy does drugs but he never asked me to try something cause he knows how i am!!
Help??!!
2007-03-17 14:23:48 · 3 answers · asked by mini mel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a hard choice to make if u don't know what u want. But u seem to know. I don't want to tell u who to decide, but how to decide. U only live once, and if don't make mistakes, then u don't gain the necessary experience, and can't learn from it. They clearly both make u happy but, u have a stronger connection with one then the other and u know which one it is. Drugs can ruin a relationship no doubt, but people quit, people change, and people grow out of old habits. Maybe he just needs some encouragement. Everybody always wants to play it safe, and those are the same folks who'll watch your whole life go by and say " if I could do it again......" The choice is your, but do be scared to make a mistake!
2007-03-24 16:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you want to hear this, but you shouldn't be considering a guy who's into drugs. Its a loser activity, and it will get worse over time. You cannot think that because right now he hasn't done anything in front of you, that he won't in the future. Right now he's just playing it cool to win you over, but don't be so naive that it will not change if you leave your boyfriend.
2007-03-20 19:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♫ giD∑■η ♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the dude with the drugs, it doesn't matter how charming he is! He is messed up and you know it deep down. Sometimes, no matter how attracted you are to someone, if it is dangerous to you you need to physically get away from them because you know they are trouble and hard to resist. Be strong and stay smart.
2007-03-25 05:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Runnin for my life '73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋