short story: met a guy, dated for two months last summer, I really like him, we are still talking, oh and by the way I met him on my vacations, he lives at the US i live in south america, but I'll move to the US on september God willing....
Been talking to him for all this months, every week, twice a week, and I am sad, scared, worried, because i haven't heard from him in 2 weeks.
We are more like email buddys... or something like it... But i really really like him, and I wouldn't want him to stop talking to me. What should I do... I feel really bad, what should I think?
2007-03-17 14:23:37 · 8 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but, everything was great two weeks ago, why wpould he do this all of a sudeden, besides I'm treating him as a friend and nothing more, I mean there is nothing to brake up, there is nothing out of the ordinary, why would he stop communicating with me now???
2007-03-17 14:34:48 · update #1
Anything could have happened. He may be out of town. You need to not worry. If he never responds to you emails then move on. Some times a persons emails will be sent to the spam folder and the other person will be waiting for an email that will never arrive; because it was filtered out.
2007-03-20 21:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all in the mind. Stop thinking about the problem and concentrate more in yourself and people near you. Of course it is easier said than done but there is nothing much you can do about it if he does not want to contact you. He got his reasons. The more you wait for him to contact you the more desperate you will feel. Try mix up with your friends around you to make it easier for you to take him away from you mind.
2007-03-17 21:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lavender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks of you as just that a buddy, friend you know and has no other feelings for you. I hope your not moving here for him?..Trust me hon I have lost so much in my life moving for others and that includes losing part of being me. I am finally, hopefully going to get back home. Ask God to fill that empty spot that only he can fill and leave it in his hands. Like you said God willing.
2007-03-17 21:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not respond to your emails, then he's just not into you. And why would you want to waste your time on him if he isn't? If there's a legit reason, he'll tell you. I know it hurts, but try to take your mind off of it. Go out and find a nice hotty in your area!
2007-03-17 21:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kynthia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't guess why haven't heard from him you need to contact him and ask him. Maybe the 'relationship' means more to you than to him. You seem to be hoping for a lot from a relatively short-lived relationship.
2007-03-17 21:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just a guy. If he is really your "friend" then he'll talk to you. Don't worry about it. Go out with your friends to get your mind off him. Good Luck!!! : )
2007-03-17 21:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by ambey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, American guys are weird. Iv had big relationship problems dealing with trust and distance and what not, so I think that if you "KNOW" who he is, then just trust him, but you DONT KNOW who he is since your not there.
Hint Hint; find a local
2007-03-17 21:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jack J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep emailing and calling till responds
2007-03-17 21:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by burtonsucka369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋