OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. IOn the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.
2007-03-17 14:23:15 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is causing us to keep going back to each other? Despite what happens or what I said we he will still talk to me & I will talk to him too but why? How does he see ME in HIS eyes? Does he miss me or is he playing me?
2007-03-17 14:24:13 · update #1
Sounds like he's playing games. I guess my question would be first your age. Just say your are fairly young..since you said you wanted to wait to get married. Well maybe he figures if he is around you enough.. he can kinda figure out what youre up to...Like.if he still has a chance with you. I would guess he is not interested in a relationship but more of maybe trying to be your first..I'm sure if you moved on into a normal relationship and not this email msn tag or whatever he will either back off or pursue harder. At that point..if he is pursing..its because he doesnt want you with anyone but seems like he wants you alone....Move on...Enjoy life...Stay off the MSN!!!!
2007-03-17 14:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that he respects your desision to wait on sex. You would have to ask him how he truely feels. Maybe he just needs a friend.
2007-03-17 21:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to be friends, and since he is a guy he is hoping for benefits too.
2007-03-17 21:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋