2007-03-17 14:21:59 · 18 answers · asked by Je 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-17 14:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A thirteen year old shouldn't be with a man. And if she was looking for sex from a man, he better not give it to her because that's called rape. By law, a CHILD under 16 doesn't know whether or not they want to have sex with someone over 16. The thirteen year old would have been manipulated into thinking that that's what they wanted.
2007-03-17 21:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First things first, sex at thirteen (in the USA at least) is illegal. Secondly, when I was thirteen all I wanted was a man who really cared about me. You have to be genuine and give as much as you can. If she becomes controlling and overbearing then dump her. But if you give her attention, love and lots of cuddling (or space depending on her) that will make her happy. Also, little gifts like picking a flower on the way home or something is nice, too. Show her you care by actions! I hope that helps.
2007-03-17 21:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
At thirteen, a girl is bombarded by a million things, TV, their friends, their parents. It's very confusing to determine what they want for themselves but I can tell you this, although the trend is for girls to have sex at a young age, even if she thinks she does, most likely she is not emotionally ready nor is she likely responsible enough to take into consideration all that sex means, pregnancy, disease and emotions that go with it. I think girls look for love but love to a thirteen year old is not the enduring love of a lifetime. She is changing so much. The best thing for her in my opinion is friendship, closeness and being made to feel special.
2007-03-17 21:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by jamlinrich 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um a man!!?? Ok if youre a man and youre dating a thirteen year old year, that's against the law!! if i were you id STOP right now and forget about it, unless you want to go to jail. Oh and if youre under 18 it really depends on the girl. Just ask her.
2007-03-17 21:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by marya 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, thirteen is a difficult age to tell...Some girls have developed and want sex and love, but most of them don't even know what love is, and are too careless to have sex. Most thirteen year old girls just want a guy to talk to and hug and care for her. But other than that, there's no knowing.
2007-03-17 21:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by Liz P 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I assume you are her father if you are a man involved with a thirteen year old girl.
She probably likes movies, music, clothes, friends, school, and visiting places kids love like Disneyland.
2007-03-17 21:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by kook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 13 yr old girl doesn't want a man, she just wants a guy who isn't immature. she is possibly looking for sex, possibly looking to be loved and maybe fall in love, but most probably she is looking to be accepted and told she is beautiful and hear everything she wants to hear. she most probably needs just the simplest embrace, just to be cuddled with and comforted when she is upset. someone she can run to that she knows will protect her...no matter what.
2007-03-17 21:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by berrykiss2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thirteen?
a man = a boyfriend, yes ?
sex = NO
love = too young.
a close friendship, a person with whom she can share things.
acceptance.
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2007-03-17 21:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's looking for lust. The feeling of being liked. That might cause her to make decisions she really doesnt want to or may be too young for it...!! shes too young to know what love is so itll most likely be lust... not sex because she might not be completely ready for sex. so im going with lust
2007-03-17 21:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by .....!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋