our friends because i have to act like shes just my friend, i can sense that were growing apart and i dont want to loose her already!!! This would make me so sad, what can i do?
2007-03-17 14:15:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why does it have to remain a secret? The need for secrecy is probably what is causing you to grow apart.
Fish or cut bait! Either tell everyone about your relationship or end it.
2007-03-17 14:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by realst1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep it a secret. If you two like one another then you need to be together. Don't allow your burning flame to go out for her just because of your friends. If they were your true friends then they would want you to be happy and go for it. Obviously they don't care two S*I*S about your feelings for this girl. Don't keep it a secret because it will only cause you both pain in the end. What if something good comes out of this relationship and makes you happier than ever? You will never know because you're allowing your friends to help you get further away from her and lose her. My opinion is screw what other people think. As long as you're happy and she is happy, hold on to her and let the sparks fly. Good luck!
2007-03-17 21:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to keep it a secret? That's ridiculous. A real relationship does not have to be a secret from anyone. You do not have a real relationship. Move on.
2007-03-17 21:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend and her boyfriend are keeping their relatsionship a secret too because other people might get mad. and my friend's friend also likes him so they have to keep it on the down low. but whatever you feel comfy with just do it. whatever your heart tells you is what you stick too.
2007-03-17 21:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by jordyn123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love eachother truly
no force on earth can keep u apart
2007-03-17 21:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that this is making you upset and ask her why she is doing this.
2007-03-17 21:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DO YOU HAVE TO KEEP IT A SECRET EITHER YOUR TOGETHER OR YOUR NOT WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO HIDE FOR?
2007-03-17 21:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it dosent matter wat your friends think if you like her go for it!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-17 21:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by diana d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋