Ok theres this boy i like and well the other night me and my friend called him. My friend was pretending to be me on my phone and she asked him out. We did that bc if he said no i could say it was a trick and i didnt ask him out but if he said yes he would think it was me... Anyways she asked him and he said hed call me back. Well the next day he called me back and he didnt say anything though. And the next day at school he only said one thing to me "is this ur water bottle u dropped" well the next day it was better.. and he talked to me. But can he not see that i like him? or what is a way for me to tell him i like him without actually saying it?
2007-03-17 14:15:19 · 12 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first of all he's a boy and not a man yet. But even if he were a man, us men don't always get the clues that women send to us. That's why communication is so important. We don't always see things as clearly as women do sometimes. Besides sending hints and clues don't work too well either because what if we look at it in a totally different way. Maybe he's a shy guy and doesn't know how to communicate with girls.
My advise is to tell him hoe you feel about him and see where it goes and if h still does not respond then let it go. There is nothing wrong with a female approaching a male and it will not make you look desparate or anything like that. At least that way you know for sure that he knows where you stand. Good luck and go for it.
2007-03-17 14:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys and girls at same age are not always in sync when it come to romance.
When I was a boy, there were times I was so preoccupied on other things and girls just never in my radar screen.
But, sometimes, nature does call on boys and they will be interested.
So, you need to aware, not all the targets out there are ready. You need to find the one who is in the mood, and leave those dumb heads alone, they are useless to you, for now.
It is not your fault, nor boys fault. It is mother nature playing her tricks at you all.
2007-03-17 21:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sir W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's probably thinking of the Basketball match he saw on tv last night
2007-03-17 21:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by KH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm he's either not interested and simply ignoring it or trying to forget all about it or he's making a decision, or he could be trying to get to know you more.
2007-03-17 21:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably just shy and unexperienced. I was for years, i think that finally large quantities of alcohol cured me of that. I suggest you take it easy and pass him a note or something instead.
2007-03-17 21:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably recognized the call as a trick (your friend instead of you) and thinks you're just messing with him.
You might have to suck it up and tell him.
2007-03-17 21:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You flirt with him. Smile, wink, eye contact, etc. He should get the message.
Good luck to ya!
2007-03-17 21:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be straight forward and tell him. No mind games.
2007-03-17 21:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by YOU telling him, not your friend, and face to face, not on the phone.that way you see his facial expressions, and get an answer right there.
2007-03-17 21:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him again if he dosen't take you someone else will
2007-03-17 21:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by weezy f. baby Young money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋