Im going to emo now (HELP ME!)?

Question

so here the story my x and I are friends and he is amazing but it turns out that I am in love with his best friend and we realized that he adn I wont date because we love my x too much.. and then my x got a girlfriend and soo now should be wrong with us being together right... noo now x doesnt think that he can do this new relationship because of me.... I am really pissed at myself..... any help out there>

Answer 1

as selfish as this may sound, i say go for what YOU want. If you like your ex's bf and he likes you, go for it. I dont know how old you are, but if you are an adult, i say do what you want you dont have to answer to anyone. Dont live you life for anyone but yourself. I am all for thinking of others feelings, but.....in this case your ex shouldn't give a dam n who you date, and niether should you.

i mean lets be realistic now. if your ex cant realze that you like his bf, and you want to pursure him, then maybe hes not as "amazing" as you think. I dont know, you do what you want but ts something to think about luv...good luck with what ever you decide...

-chai