What do u say to the guy, when you like him, he asks you out, but your not allowd to go out?

Question

i can go out when im sixteen thats in a year and 8 months approx.

i really DONT want to go behind their backs, i dont want to betray their trust, and i would feel guilty

Answer 1

Be honest and tell him that you're not allowed to date. If he really likes you then he will understand. All you can do is have an awesome friendship with him. That will allow you to get to know him better and find out what one another is about. Gain trust and honesty with one another. It will help you out when you are actually allowed to date. Good luck!

Answer 2

You should've never asked you parents to begin with. If you didn't ask them in the first place, and told them you were hanging out with a friend, and they found out you were on a date, you could've used the excuse "Well you never asked if the friend was a guy or a girl."

I would sneak out anyway, but that's just me. You could do the same, but if your parents catch you, it could be hard to earn your trust back with them. You could also ask if you could invite a few friends, so it would be a group outing, and they might let you go. If they still say no, just tell the guy something came up and you can't, and continue to be his friend.

Answer 3

Then don't do it I guess. I'm sorry, but what your parents say goes. Don't EVER betray their trust. Many have done so and have later regretted it.

Answer 4

Man, I think the girl I like has the same problem....at least, I hope she does.

Tell him the truth. And make sure he gets the message that you really do like him.

Answer 5

tell ur parents that u like the guy and ask if u can get a year advanced. if they say yes...ur set. if they say no, do it behind their backs ;)

Answer 6

If he really likes you then he would wait. but don't hope that he would wait because some guys are just perverts.