I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.
She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.
She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.
Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.
2007-03-17 13:54:09 · 9 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has on the other hand invited me to dinner and a movie. She has also rated me a 9 from a scale of 1-10 in hotness. In addition when i jokingly mentioned i would stretch my arms in theatres to make a move, she insisted she wanted to see it. When we went with a group of people on a seperate occasion, she insisted i sit next to her and that if i continued sitting in front of her i would block her view. We walk close together a lot and play weird games. She even took my phone, decorated, and put pix of herself making weird faces and kissing the screen. She played the piano while i was napping and then jumped on me after.
2007-03-17 13:54:20 · update #1
shes in love with you
or she could just be flirting and waiting to see how long it takes for you to say that you love her, and then she will just ignore you like she did with all the others.
but if you really love her than tell her, you do not want to spend your whole life deciding. tell her as soon as you can, so if she doesn't like you, you can find the right one.
2007-03-17 14:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmn. Seems like you guys are really close friends, but maybe she's hiding something. The point is, just talk to each other. She likes you because she can talk with you, so I'm sure having the conversation about your relationship won't bother her much. You never know until you hear it come out of her mouth, so... just sit down and chat with her! Ask her if she likes you. Good luck- hope all goes well.
2007-03-17 20:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by TUTU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.......Sounds like a personal problem to me.....Maybe your such a great friend she just doesn't want to lose you, because if the relationship were to not workout nothing would be the same......for her. Spend more time, && talk with her about it....Besides do u no her favorite food, color, jewelry, clothes, hobbies....etc.? Just let the good times roll on....how much different would a relationship be, than u just described your friend ship anyways......?
BEST OF LUCK! =]
⥠LaNa....{Megan's Friend}
2007-03-17 21:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by beautifulsoul_1993 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she likes attention,stop doing whatever she says and doing nice things for her she'll lose respect for and interest in you.Trust me girls always go for the guys that dont worship them.
If you follow her around like a puppy dog at her workplace and give her shoulder massages she knows already that you like her and there will be no challenge or fun for her in it.
Try being a little aloof and watch the difference then you'll know if she really likes you.
2007-03-17 22:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by rusalka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know she likes you, don't yah? Just in case, I wouldn't push it, since she said she likes you b/c you probably will never fall for her, Let her make the first move. I think if you make her alittle jelous she will let you know. Or on the other hand just be there for her, everything works out. good luck and that's just my opinion.
2007-03-17 21:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by onelittlecatfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez. u have a tongue in your head don't you? ASK HER!!!!
can you not read the signals? you are already quite intimate so it looks a goer - just ask her a=what you need to know
2007-03-17 21:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Des M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she might, but then again....that comment about you never falling for her might be a sign....I don't know.
2007-03-17 21:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, she likes you...... i think she blows off her admires 'cause she likes you......
2007-03-17 21:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!
2007-03-17 21:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lexine U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋