to want to get back together after YOU break up with your boyfriend?
I broke up with him a week ago but i really want him back...
i think he wants to but i think he is sorta holding a grudge...
he keeps saying he doesnt love me anymore.. and we will never be together... but then he keeps calling me and stuff.. and laughing with me and having a good time... and then he slipped today and said "i love you" but then denied it
idk what to do
2007-03-17 13:43:48 · 20 answers · asked by Mimi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we dated 14 months...
and dont laugh at my avatar!! she is cute :)
2007-03-17 13:56:31 · update #1
It's very normal to feel that way. Whether or not it would be a good idea is entirely another matter.
2007-03-17 13:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by Underground Man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal. This guy was an important part of your life. You shared a lot with him, so it is totally normal that those feelings don't just turn off automatically. However, when thinking about getting back with him, maybe you should think about why you broke up with him in the first place. Give things some time (so that all of the really strong emotions (yours and his) can calm down a little before you make any major decisions.
2007-03-17 20:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by SexyScientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal for u yes. Normal for me No. Let him go! that seems like the problem he has moved on and your are trying to make it work. He is playing your game. Let him want u back now that u could not work things out when u were together. He knows u he is saying what u want to here. But the feeling is gone.
2007-03-17 20:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal to do this when you are teeny boppers and haven't matured yet because at that age you don't know what you want in a partner yet, You will go Thur a few of them like that before you figure out what you are really looking for and don't let it get to you.
2007-03-17 21:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRy to stay apart for at least a few weeks and get him to agree to that and that after two weeks you will talk about your relationship and your future and go from there. Now it is too early in your breakup to think clearly about the important issues between you.
2007-03-17 20:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very normal. The reason is, he was your safety net, he was like your person that made you happy when every one was agaist you. He really wants to be with you, but he is just tring to hurt you for hurting him(breaking up with him). I'll bet if you say you want to get together he will. Just make him see that he is hopeless without you.
2007-03-17 20:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Kinka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's normal, but, I think the real question is, "where do I go from here?." I think that the X wants to get back together, but, he's not going to let you do it on your terms. If you are sincere you'll just have to be patient and take what comes. Does it make sense to you?
2007-03-17 20:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is normal, you are used to having someone in your life in that way. Now that he isn't there like he was, it can cause some insecurity and wondering if you will find someone in the future.
So the natural thing is to go back to what you had. Just like in anything in life.
2007-03-17 20:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should talk to him before you do anything make sure you say you are sorry for breaking up with him in the first place!!
2007-03-17 20:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he's just embarassed. Don't worry, this is natural. Encourage him by not pushing him. Act normal, you'll get back together... good luck!
2007-03-17 20:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lexine U 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋