I was reaching to be with somebody I phisically liked becauz he was challenge for me.I just realised I waned to be with him to forget ex boyfriend and all the way last 3 years I was acting like a fool with this new person.He broke up comunnication with me and NOW I see what really happened.I dont know what I feel for him but sometimes I think I miss him.
2007-03-17 13:42:21 · 4 answers · asked by blackvioletred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You think? Just find out how you feel first.
2007-03-17 13:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand your question, you got involved with someone without really understanding why, or what was going on with you,and he got hurt (else why break off communication with you?).
So you used him, although you didn't mean to, and he's hurt. It speaks well of you that you want to apologize. Realize that you also don't want to cause him more pain, though. This is a "tread very carefully" situation.
Write him a note. Please, PLEASE don't go on and on about WHY you did it. A simple, "I really wasn't ready to get involved with anyone so soon after my relationship broke up" is explanation enough. "I was still in love with someone else and trying to forget him" is not - that will just cause him more pain.
Keep your apology sincere, simple, and short. "I just have to tell you that I'm so sorry I hurt you, and even sorrier that I didn't realize it sooner," followed by "I wish I had figured out sooner that I was still hurting and not ready to get involved with anyone," and "Despite what happened, I just want you to know that I still like and respect you, and should you ever want to get in touch with me, I hope you will" or words to that effect.
Then you let him decide what, if anything, to do about all of this, and you respect his decision. Good luck!
2007-03-17 13:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok how you say you are sorry is go up to his face and tell him in person dont ever say you are sorry on the phone or anything like that cause then you might sound desprete or somrthing just look i am sorry for whats i have done will you pleaze forgive me and i fyou i promise i will not do what i did ever agian will you find the kindness in my heart to forgive me one thing you never do is so i am begging you that makes you sound to desperate
2007-03-17 13:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by ashley s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What come around goes around. Karma bit you in the a*s. Next time you have a boyfriend, try not to use him.
2007-03-17 13:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Yea Yea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋