AAH. My bf...the best so far...I want to kiss him...we haven't hugged or held hands...but hey we are 13...like all my friends have had their first kiss, except me...
We get detentions if teachers catch us kissing...and neither of us told our parents..because of them making fun of us..
and he's not going to make the first move, i know that ,...help me please.
2007-03-17 13:31:10 · 14 answers · asked by krissy. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only time i see him is at school and at band festivals...help me out please
2007-03-19 13:34:13 · update #1
Hey, first kiss? Always awkward. You can't plan on an exact time to have your first kiss, I mean you can but it won't happen unless you force it. Work your way up to the right moment. Soon it will just happen. Maybe after a date when saying goodbye just lean in, he should follow your lead. Good Luck!
2007-03-17 13:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how about right after school. Or you could just do the kiss in front of the teachers then freak out a cry about how they've ruined the biggest memory of your young life by giving you a detention. You know get all drama queeny. Have a major melt down. Or maybe you could let him read this post. Your parents sound funny. If all they will do is make fun then maybe you should just tell them. I'd rather have been made fun of and laughed with them. Then been "grounded til your 30". Good luck!! I wish I could remember my first kiss.
2007-03-17 20:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by chelexhay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*How to tell if he wants to kiss you!
After you've kissed him once, you know he wants
to kiss you. But what if you two have never
kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.
You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes
a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading
his mind. Here are some ways. He could have
worked on the science project with someone else, but
he asked you. He could have called somebody else to
chat about the English assignment, but he called you.
He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but
he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out
with you.
And what about when you're with him. Does he
sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when
you're together? These are all signs that he likes
you and might want to kiss you.
*How to get him to kiss you
Sometimes people who are nervous send out
mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but
your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."
First of all your posture should be open. Sit or
stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the
ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or,
instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"
Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're
not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you
remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain
you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands
on your neck.
Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet.
Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper
his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!
How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
Remember: If ur not ready u dnt have to do this. Dnt ever think that u have to do sumthing just cuz everyone else does it.
If u ever need anything else email me @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-03-18 14:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you haven't kissed yet, if he's shy don't make him or try doing everything possible to make him kiss you. It should be natural and your only 13. Start with hugging each other and then work your way up. As he becomes more comfortable he will then feel comfortable with making a move.
2007-03-17 20:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey I'm 13 too, and if u have a boyfriend, well:conventional wisdom says concentrate on academics and that's all but I say, get close (at a movie in the back seat act like Ur scared) and snuggle close. (if he wants to kiss he wont mind) if he reassures u look up lovingly at him and get close and say thanks, if he doesn't get the clue (i didn't) just go 100% and kiss him. BUT MAKE SURE THAT HE WONT MIND!!!
2007-03-17 20:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say start out with a harmless hug. then eventually, hold his hand and one day while you guys are really close, go for it. you arent going to get anywhere if you dont make the first move, and i suggest you make it before you don have that chance.
2007-03-17 20:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by tom_delonge43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... why don't u guys go catch a movie. then, after the movie, when u guys get out... kiss him! don't french kiss him, though. it's kinda trashing to french kiss when you're like our age. i'm 14. i think like maybe for french kissing, someone should be 17 at least.
hope this helps!
2007-03-17 20:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by (Beautiful Disaster) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just kiss the boy many friends that i know kiss all the time when teachers aren't around in my school and there 12
2007-03-17 20:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by tospecialintheheadforaname 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best idea is to tell him over the phone that you think its about time you guys should kiss, but tell him the day before you want to do it.
2007-03-17 20:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jen â?¥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 13, my friend that i knew and her boyfriend had thier first kiss at one of the dances, all of us friends blocked them, so the teachers couldnt see, it was a brilliant plan
2007-03-17 20:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋