There is a girl i like, but iam a way too shy to ask her out; What should i do?

Question

I went to a restaurant a month ago and there was a waitress who was extremely beautiful. The moment i saw her i had some sort of feelings about her. But i am so shy to ask a girl out, so i thought it's better not to think about her. One day in my art class when we were in the line sign attendence i met a girl whose face was so familiar to me, later i noticed it's the same waitress girl, and i said to my slef" WHAT A COINCEDENCE", i thaught i must to something, i must ask her out. BUT I CAN'T! It's is so pethatic of me. Since then i keep thinking about her and before each class i decide to open a conversation with her each time, but you know... . It's like i can never ask a girl out. There is just 2 weeks to the end of the quarter and iam so disappointed. What hurts me the most is that she doesn't even know me. What should i do now??

Answer 1

find out what clubs she goes to, get close to her, introduce ur self. then at the end of the meeting just casually ask for her phone number and if she's free on friday.

Answer 2

Although getting to know someone — whether you're crushing on her or not — might seem really difficult, it's a lot easier than you think.

Here are a few pointers to get you started:

Think about some things you have in common with the person you're interested in. Do you know if she likes a certain kind of music you like? Do you have any mutual friends? Once you've identified something you think you have in common or want to talk about, try to find a time when you can be alone or have some privacy. You may even want to give her a call or send her an e-mail or IM.

You might want to consider asking her to do something with you and your other friends that could be fun or interesting, like going to a movie, the park, or a concert. This way you have some time to get to know each other without being alone with each other — which might make it a more comfortable way to start.