I have fallen totally in love with her. we have told each other everything about our personnel lives.
but, she is still hesitant and very scared about meeting in person.
we know what each other looks like and she tells me that she is in love with me too.
what should i do.......this has went on for 6 months
2007-03-17 13:28:14 · 11 answers · asked by ray g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's in love she shouldn't be hesitant to meet you. Tell her to bring a friend and meet in a public place. Do coffee. Meet in an airport lounge on a layover, whatever ..
But if she WON'T meet you - don't maintain the status quo, because something else is up.
2007-03-17 13:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by pepper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful - are you positive of the entire situation?
Sure she is single? Maybe she hasn't told her family about you and is scared to tell them? Is she living near you? Can she meet you without spending money that she might not have? Or just maybe she is only playing and you took her seriously?
Try again to have her meet you in a very public area - where she can have someone help her back to her car if you scare her. Some women frighten easier than others. Good luck!
2007-03-17 20:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to forget about it- it may be some kind of computer hoax like I went through in the past, along with all the other politically correct dirty inhumane criminal atrocities I have had to deal with in this so called wonderful country called Canada that everyone hears about without hearing other sides of the story, and how extreme socialism and parallel artificial nations and conflicts are growing! And a lot of people are starting to realize what I am saying is true- just like reading one of the major news papers today- this is becoming a real problem! When a nation, like Canada, starts to favour certain races and people because of their races and cultures alone and suppresses other people and subjects them to unfair injustices and biases, like myself! Certain places like Texas and Australia are looking like lot better places to live where someone can have decent fair life and excel at what they are good at and enjoy doing without being harassed, tortured, and subjected to all kinds of unbelievable practises and cover ups if they do not fall under the right race, colour, or creeds that are allowed to establish their own nations within a nation and go against what the general population believes in or wants in a normal democratic society!!!
2007-03-17 20:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how ya feel my friend. I met my wife online but that didn't last long lol. I also met my current g/f online. We've been together since September. I flew her down here to Texas from Missouri for thanksgiving, that way she could get to meet some of my family and get to know me and them b4 we got too serious.
Take her someplace public where there's a lot of ppl. Movies, Resteraunt, w/e she is comfortable with. If you ain't sure what she is comfortable with, don't be afraid to ask her. That right there will tell her that you care about her, and want her to be happy. :-) Good luck :-)
2007-03-17 20:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cory C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how far about you live. How easy will it be to meet in person? How expensive will it be?
She may not have been totally honest with you and is afraid you will discover her lies. Or she may be afraid you have not been totally honest with her and she will discover your lies.
What do you think about these possibilities?
Your first meeting has to be in a public place with no strings attached and there has to be a way for both of you to continue to protect your lies from each other. Maybe you both need trusted friends to be the go-betweens on the in-person meet.
2007-03-17 20:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with this. My man and i met online and use to do the web camming thing too. Only for us we met after only a month and were totally still in love.He moved from his state of conn in with me in mass after only a couple of weeks after we met in person. We have been going strong now for two yrs and i hope to one day be his wife. So for you im gonna say when she is really ready to meet you she will. You cant blame her for being scared.....she wants to make sure shes doing the right thing. Taking things slow can be a good thing for the both of you. I wish you both all the best!!!!
2007-03-17 20:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she is hesitant and scared is very good. Play it slow and do not build expectations, on your part or hers. Just meet and begin to share your thoughts. Gradually build up if it seem appropriate, make sure it is not just infatuation. Good Luck
2007-03-17 20:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you get a good answer to this one, let me know. I'm in the same boat - but it's been 3 weeks instead of 6 months. We get along really well, but she's scared about meeting in person. (See some of my previous questions.) I wish I had a good answer for you about this one.
2007-03-17 20:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people are scared i met my husband online he asked me out for coffee, i told him i would meet him but it had to be a very public place we met at burgers and shakes and had lunch also.Afterwards we went to a park in seperate cars after that its all histoy.
2007-03-17 20:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what. If you are looking for a lifelong relationship what is six months out of that? Nothing I tell you. So she is scared. How does she really know what she thinks is really the truth?
2007-03-17 20:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋