My college counselor already new that I was having a rough time, yet she proceeded to go into the more sensitive subjects. She made me even sicker. She didn't bother helping me with my current problems. That wee when she went into that subject I had midterm examinations, I failed ALL of them. I hate her. I studied hard!!! Did she think that I would get better over night? She didn't warn me that my raw emotions would come out. She through me in the dark without a flashlight. What a *****. People are dangerous.
2007-03-17
13:22:32
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Even if some of you guys are right, I can not take away my anger. When I try to stay positive, something or someone just makes me snap. I'm not that sweet, trustworthy person I use to be.
2007-03-17
13:34:14 ·
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I'm just saying that she should have had more sense!!! Her timing was wrong. I'm aware that when you touch upon a sensitive subject raw emotions come up. I know.
2007-03-17
13:36:15 ·
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No. Wrong. Good grief....look at you blaming someone else for your problems. She's a college counselor....NOT your therapist. You cannot blame anyone but you for failing your exams. You are dangerous because you are not taking responsibility for your own life.
Stop being a victim.
2007-03-17 13:28:06
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answered by Anonymous
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She should have used better timing. I will be a therapist in 2 yrs. No one can ruin your life, only set you back....some people more than others. It is a common practice to dredge things up. You can not just heal only the parts you choose and still expect good results. Our actions or in-actions are fundamentally based on our experiences from the very beginning of our lives. For instance ....we do not understand the word "hot" unless we experience it. Sometimes we go thru life touching the fire till we finally get tired of hurting and seek help. You are courageous to seek help. Healing is not easy,you have to want to do it. Your halfway thru the semester now. LOVE SPRING BREAK!!! Don't you? If you choose to not go back you will have to start totally over again w/ someone else. You'll have to explain all that you have already gone over.Stick it out unless you lack rapport w/ her. Just tell her what it did to you and to be more careful w/ her timing when going thru particularly rough issues w/ you. Speedy healing sweet heart!
2007-03-17 20:41:07
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answered by LUCY 4
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I suggest reading PRIMER by Edgar Cayce and PRIMAL SCREAM by Arthor Janov (1974). Hypothetically speaking, if I were your professor and it was final exam time---which is going to be 1/3 of your grade, therefore, if you don't pass, you fail the semester---You have 3 hours to complete and it can be open book along with your notes---and I write on the chalkboard one question----why? What would be your response? I guarantee that it would make for some interesting reading along with everyone elses, and to be quite honest, there is no incorrect answer, so if you wrote-----------WHY NOT?! and turned it in, I'd issue an A+. Is the glass half full (optimism), or is it half full (pessimism)? BOTH! Honey, please don't mind f**k yourself so hard. Please e-mail me if you like. unknownsoldier1st@yahoo.com Sometimes we are our own worst enemies.
2007-03-17 20:41:48
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answered by unknownsoldier1st 3
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sounds like you need a new psychologist!! they have helped me a LOT and I know a many people who have also been helped, but a bad psychologist can be just as dangerous as a bad surgeon. Get away!! Tell her how the experience affected you and that you will not be coming back. I really hope you feel better soon!
2007-03-17 20:30:14
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answered by curiousE 3
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Why did you listen? You are a college student and a free thinker? Besides colleges dont have counselors like high schools do. Most universities have peers to guide you to find the right courses and get a degree.
Get off the computer and get a life!!
2007-03-17 20:28:30
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answered by Phillip 4
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Yes!
They tend to be thieves, scouts and manipulators. They sometimes ask you deep personal questions on sensitive subjects in order to assess you for what they might be able to rob from you on the System and for how they might rob you (kill on the sneak or abuse).
Take care! Find out how the System operates. Find out what it takes to get on the System, as, for example a psychologist or counsellor and what is required in terms of payment of ongoing dues. Believe it, it is damage.
The System is controlled by Freemasons and Illuminati, or groups with similar practices. They guide their actions according to a Gnostic ideology, which maintains that good and bad (yin and yang, Western interpretation must exist in equal amounts and in equal proportion, being kept deliberately in balance.
The same practice goes on at the local university where I live. Counsellors there just love to take up lots of people's time at exam time. Ironically many people see them because they have trouble keeping up with their studies because of language difficulties (with many foreign students), and even because they are not on a compromise and are being taken to the limit. Some people do not know what a compromise is all about, and they are thus vulnerable to be robbed (probably killed).
If you are not on a compromise, this disadvantage MAY be why you are having trouble keeping up with your studies and/or exams. A compromise is a type of a false advantage, kind of like a handicap in golf. Many university degrees are not honest, because many students are on one. In order to get a compromise you have to agree to due ongoing damage. You are expected to "get it out of someone else" by robbing them (possibly by abusing them having them killed). Volunteers frequently get "robbed in this way. People get send after them. Of course, you can pay yourself, but you increase your danger level. I am advising you to stay away from taking one.
2007-03-17 23:06:30
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answered by spanner 6
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College counselors are not generally trained psychologists. Psychologists can be much more helpful if you make sure to find someone who is a good fit. When seeking a psychologist, you need to make sure you find someone who you trust and whose style is affective for you.
2007-03-17 20:29:39
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answered by JaniesTiredShoes 3
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they're kinda supposed to do that, usaully problems have roots and those roots are in your dark past, and you must go into them to find the solution.
It's kinda obvious... I want to be a therapist when i'm older so yeah...
2007-03-17 20:30:18
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answered by Gainy 4
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those counselors are paid to be there. if they were really intelligent, they wouldnt be there. your problems probably arnt scholastic anyway. if you want good advise, go to a bar at about 11 in the morning. those people have been thru it all, and its too early to be so drunk you cant think.
2007-03-17 20:38:20
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answered by chris l 5
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Nah girl they just wreck with your head! :-)
2007-03-17 20:26:57
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answered by Anonymous
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