been married 6 years my husband has cheated on me a few times so we broke up i was really hurt although i cheated on him more then a few times he just NEVER found out anyway we are back together and i am afraid he will cheat again! ok this is going to sound strange yes i will cheat on him again but i feel like he is the one who got caught not me plus in some strange way i feel like i can do it but he cant cause i am the one who will hurt more i am a woman we are more emotional then a man?
2007-03-17 13:09:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your wrong and if your both unfaithful y bother, ofcourse it affects guys its the worst thing you could do to one
2007-03-17 13:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you asked for opinions..
Cheating on your husband just to cheat will be dumb that won't make you feel better. Kinda like most revenge doesn't make people feel better.
If sometime in the future if you feel you must see another person, then do it for those reasons, but not just to get back at him.
But the way you are talking, it sound like you don't want really so see someone else.
Hard to say if you or he will be hurt more by cheating. that would be determined only by you and he .. and this would be an uncomfortable topic to explore for the real answer
you could look at it from the other side...
why is it bothering you that he might see someone else especially if he still wants to be with you?
why do YOU want to see someone else if you want to stay with him?
or from a third side...
would it bother you or he less if you told each other that one or the other of you were going to see someone on the side? that would remove the cheating aspect.
good luck.
2007-03-17 13:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to ask yourself a some
questions. What are you gaining by cheating on him and why are you back together? Do you have any intentions at all of trying to make the relationship work? If you don't, you need to just cut your losses. I would also recommend that you think more of yourself and know that you deserve better than that. It is not worth it to continue to stay in a relationship where it is obvious that there is no trust or respect. If anything, have respect enough for yourself to just walk away. If you want to have someone in your life, get someone that will appreciate what he has at home.
2007-03-17 13:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by imhischildtwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and him do NOT need to be married anymore. THere is no love or commitment there at all for eachother. It seems like its all games between the both of you. You cant actually tell me that you feel good when you cheat on him just because he did it to you. It actually makes a person feel worse because there was nothign accomplished by cheating in the first place. and it doesnt make anything better with the marriage. Why stay married to eachother when you both obviously dont love or care for one another at all. Neither you or him have respect for yourselves or eachother!!!
2007-03-17 13:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and pay attention: you're some distance from being a terrible guy or woman. You made a mistake below duress and admitted it using fact of your deep emotions for this guy or woman; emotions so real for you to no longer undergo any dishonesty on your dating along with her. you have performed the only right suited situation, even after being informed by employing others it may be extra handy to lie. And your lady pal grow to be confident, in general by employing her love and her judgment of right and incorrect, which you need to be forgiven. it is on no account person-friendly once you're harm, and the doubt that lingers is painful, too. yet you 2 gets by way of this as you have the two shown a choose to go forward in stable faith with a renewed appreciation of, and know for, your specific bond. save speaking and development a stable, healthful partnership ~ this could be a lesson discovered and optimistically your lady pal will learn and experience issues to assist her supply up the self-damaging behaviors. stable luck to you the two.
2016-10-01 02:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to counseling. You and your husband have more problems than you think. It is also not healthy that you think you can cheat because you are a woman and we're "emotional"
2007-03-17 13:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by alexihorky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you cheat??? It doesn't matter if he did it to you, you cheating makes you nlo better than him now does it...and as a man it does hurt to be cheat on...i know
2007-03-17 13:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by anthonymperkins05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To wrongs don't make a right your better that that if he cheated on you get rid of him find someone better I know your hurt i can't say i blame you divorce him he is not worthy of you
2007-03-17 13:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that women and men are both emotional and show their emotions in different ways. why do you want to continue cheating on him? in love, you should be faithful to the person you are with.
2007-03-17 13:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should realize that you two will cheat on each other and have a mutual understanding. He won't change. It's up to you to earn how to deal with this situation.
2007-03-17 13:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both wrong for each other. You shouldn't have to cheat. Besides, the marriage sounds unhappy, not just the sex.
2007-03-17 13:22:56 · answer #11 · answered by Amber _rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋