what shud i do ever since my sis was in the hospital 4 something i hav been parenoid and im scared that i or family will pass away. what can i do to get over this fear..or can some1 plz convince me to not be scared of hospitals? plzz
2007-03-17 13:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yea, i often get scared about that stuff too. =( But I always try and do something to take my mind off of it. I usually have a talk with the person im scared about passing away and they always reinsure me that it wont be for a loooong time. Anything could happen at any second so be prepared. But theres no use being paraniod everyday. So live everyday like theres no tomorrow.
2007-03-19 08:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Someone : ] ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look at this in another way. If she had to be in the hospital,you need to be thankful that she lives in a country that can give her care she needs ,in a hospital. It was the best place for her to be, and you should not fear that. Be thankful. As I'm sure you must know, not everyone when struck with an illness or any ache or pain can drive to a hospital and get treated. As far as the fear of someone dying, please know, and I mean this with all due respect,but none of us are here forever,death is a part of life,just like paying taxes,we can't escape it. Next time you have to visit someone in a hospital, give thanks that he or she is in the best hands possible, and try breathing alittle easy yourself.
2007-03-17 20:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by happyfingers1@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This fear that you have is normal, did your sister die in it? Sorry to hear that if that is so, my only brother died in a hospital of a brain tumor when I was 14 and I don't like hospitals neither, but I am not afraid of them, just very careful that I try to ask good questions and pay attention to what is happening to me because of the treatment if I get any. Hospitals are mostly there to help you. They are important if they are practicing good medicine and many doctors are good people too and really care about you.
2007-03-17 20:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone at some point has a fear of hospitals, but if this is becoming real bad seek the help of a counselor. Not everyone who goes to the hospital dies, that much I do know.
2007-03-17 20:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't think it's a hospital but a hotel for the ill. Plus talk to someone about it. Your sister will be ok, there's doctors to help. don't worry, just don't think about it. And people go eventaully, it's a part of life, but they're not gonna go any time soon... it'll be like years or decades before it happens!
2007-03-17 20:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Gainy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think the best thing to do would be talk to a professional. I am not saying you are crazy, but thay might be able to put things into prespective when it comes to your fears.
2007-03-17 20:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by donkeyoftheday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Sit down and talk to your parents about your fears. Talking about what you are scared of usually helps.
2007-03-17 20:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Cecilia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋