Every time we get on the phone he doesn't have nothing to say nor me. We have been together for 2 yrs and still didn't find out what to say on the phone with each other. HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!! OR ADVICE
2007-03-17 13:04:37 · 14 answers · asked by Niecey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With us we get right to the chase: "Can i come over;" What are u doing; I love u talk to u later. babyyyyyy or say his name, do me baby especially after 2 years he would make me a promise or the ring by now. I will give a man a year before i will STOP/GO. I do not like long talks over the phone to my partner--Cut--get right to the point (we even have codes)--don't tell anyone. Peace and Serenity.
2007-03-17 13:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You each need to read some books, learn some new skills, including communications. If you have nothing to say to one another, why are you together?
If it's just on the phone that you can't seem to talk, it's because the phone is uncomfortable for him. Don't insist that he be a brilliant conversationalist on the phone. Maybe it's just that when he's away from you, he has other things to do.
2007-03-17 13:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg, this sounds soo familiar :) hehe. I'm in a long distance relationship (for 1year and 3 months) and we often don't have anything to talk about. Sometimes it helps to talk about what you're doing- like when you're cooking, or watching tv or looking at a magazine- say things that maybe he can respond to. Also, can you talk on the phone and go online at the same time? Maybe you can play a game together online and talk to eachother at the same time, something like that. And if you go out somwhere before the phone call, that's always something to talk about, too :)
2007-03-17 13:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. Find a new boyfriend, then you'll have plenty to talk about. If you can't think of anything to say to the NEW guy, then you can sit and bash the old guy. That will fill up any "dead' time.
Good luck!
2007-03-17 13:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by smartazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine spends hours with her bf on the phone, i dont know why you are having this issue...u can talk about anything...that's not helpful, i know, but i just think it's odd..
2007-03-17 13:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you probably know each other to well so you dont bother asking what hes been doing, should talk about anything outta the ordinary or make plans to do stuff, or even better go see him in person
2007-03-17 13:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about the current music that he is listening to, and if you know nothing about it, you now know what to download and explore. Find out his interests and explore them. Also ask about movies and actors that he likes; if it's a movie that you haven't seen, go rent it so that you can discuss it. Talk about food; find out what he likes...etc.
2007-03-17 13:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by stagger_lee1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's always fun 2 play would u rather with ur bf you can find out about ppl lyk ----- would u rather eat a spider or have green skin for a yr! it gets crazy and fun
2007-03-17 13:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by *_Anni3_* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you ask how replaced into your day and waht befell that ws exciting. ask him what he's doing . what hes observing some thing to start up communique to get it going. like what im retaining is attempt to get the communique flowing like once you too are speaking backward and forward.
2016-12-02 03:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by breit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when me and my boyfriend have nothin to talk about we start to do things together on the phone...like last night me and him played this game on the internet together, or yall could watch the same tv show on tv and talk about that.
maybe ask how his day was, maybe talk about sex...you could go on for hours talkin about sex.... i dont know....GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-17 13:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋