ok so i am in a relationship that is compleatly one sided, and so far i was ok with it. i had to be because he is in the navy and i have to plane around his schudal, but he always put everyone befor me. if his friends want to go out but we had plance, he goes out with them. i am going nuts here, i waote around for him to come home and put everthing on hold when he does come home and i always get ditched. so do you think i waited to long to comfront it, or should i still let it go?
2007-03-17 12:00:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lets see,
he is in the navy
makes plans with you and then breaks them when a better plan comes along
Please go back to school
there are several things you need to learn but most importantly, you can learn that you deserve better!
2007-03-17 12:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you feel that this is the best that you can do? He is letting you know, through his actions, how he feels about you. If you are fine with the situation...say nothing. I don't think you are. If you were, I wouldn't be typing this. You deserve to be with someone who puts you first. Ask yourself these questions. Why are you with him? What is it that you think that only he can give you? Why don't you have any self-respect? A man will treat you the way you let him treat you. There are no victims in love just willing participants. You have every right to expect better treatment. You can confront him or you can find someone who will value you. If you confront him...ask yourself this...can you really forgive his past behavior?
2007-03-17 19:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by mhchicetawn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i understand completly what you are going through!!! DONT WAIT AROUND FOR HIM!!1 a guy likes to chase a girl! and i know that its harder siad than done! just try and keep yourself busy. my boyfriend is a very mexican culture and because all his friends sit around and dont spend muchtime with there wives my guy thinks that its ok to come home ehn he wants and i always fel as though i am on the back burner, but i have realized that bringing it up pushes him away further, so you just have to weight out your options do you really love this guy? is he worth everything that yo are going through!! GOOD LUCk
2007-03-17 19:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by angelkitten1211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're way beyond confrontaion or letting it go. Sounds like the only thing to do here is to let HIM go.
2007-03-17 19:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront it. If it didn't go this far, I would've said get out of it, but you know... right now definitely confront him.
2007-03-17 19:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he doesn't appreciates you, i think you should let him go. because thats so wrong what hes doing to you, i think thats disrespectful! im sure a guy will treat you alot better then him
2007-03-17 19:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop waiting ask him wat he wants out of the relationship. and tell him if he wants to keep you he got to commit to seeing you before seeing his friends.
gd luck hope everything goes well
2007-03-17 19:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by valleybbe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋