Okay my sister wants to make everthing a fight and this is not a joke. I try my best to ignore it but I can't like I have to yell shut up or let it go but she won't. Is there anyway to calm myself down or try to end the fight? Please no smart or stupid answers thanks!
2007-03-17 11:57:46 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Allison♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
lock her in the closet for 3 days without food or water...she should get the message
2007-03-17 16:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by donaldblake2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have an anger problem way worse than yours and it took me three years to get over it and learn how to control myself but I find that the best thing is exercise. I know some people dont like it but it helps. When your sister starts in just ignore her and if she wont get out of your face then just get on the floor and start doing push ups while not saying a word to her. Act like she isnt even there. Now bear in mind that this will PISS her OFF royally. She will try anything to push your buttons and if you catch yourself about to say something, think of something clever that you know she cant come back with an argument on. Make yourself to be the right one in the argument. It sounds to me though that she is just trying to get under your skin, push some buttons, and pick a fight with you because she might be boared or she just probably dosent like you. Sorry but it is a sibling thing. Good luck
2007-03-17 12:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It says it takes 2 to tango, and 2 to make a fight. A person can not argue or fight by themselves. So see what you are doing to antagonize your sister. Don't try to be little goody two shoes.
Be honest with yourself, when you are analyzing this situation.
2007-03-17 12:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all every sibling is annoying. i know what youare going through...i have four sisters and one brother and they all like to fight. sometimes they do it just to get mi into trouble. the best advise i can give you is try to let out your emotions in a passive way. try writing poetry or drawing. sometimes all it takes is to just go along with what they want and let them win. eventually they will get tired of always being the winner and they will realize that it doesnt effect you and they will move on. good luck!
2007-03-17 12:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by alone_in_the_shadows 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is kinda a hard situation because she's your sister and you cant ignore her very much .try and talk to her nicely.sit her down and let her know that she is bugging you and try to understand why it is she acts this way .if she still doesnt want to change then theres not much you can do hunny .theres alot of people out there that just do things like this because there not happy or its just part of there personality .just try and ignore her when she acts this way .pratice self control .your gonna met alot of people that are going to rub you the wrong way but sometimes you just gotta learn yourself to ignore it and not say anything at all .i know its hard because i lash out when people get me mad but im trying to change .i know shes your sister but if she keep acting this way then dont hang out with her as much .she might miss hanging with you and change her ways .good luck
2007-03-17 12:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, sisters are notorious for fighting. She picks fights because she knows it will get to you. You can agree with whatever she says...yes her to death or you can walk away. Try counting to ten as you slowly drink a glass of water.
2007-03-17 12:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by mhchicetawn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is pushing your buttons; she knows exactly how to upset you..try refusing to participate in her game. Remove yourself from her presence; if you're not there, no fight; takes two to have a fight...it will drive her crazy and save your sanity.
2007-03-17 12:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband was like that, always wanted everything to be a fight or fuss, When he pushed my buttons, I would say "God Bless You" and "I Love You Anyway", this would usually work.
Good Luck
2007-03-17 12:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by All Natural Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever asked her why are u always try fighting w/me just ask her is there something wrong u have to tell me. she just maybe trying to tell u something in her own way. i mean my sister will act like a jerk if theres someting wrong with her i mean what other girl that isn't like that. if that doesnt help u can always try yoga or meditating if u don't like silence then try music it always helps me. u know just listening to rock and singing to it like breaking habits from linking park alwadys comes me down or just listen to ur kind of music. listen to ur favt. song or artist.HOPE THIS HELPS!
2007-03-17 12:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just walk outside and get some fresh air until u cool off
2007-03-17 12:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Katy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋